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Builder/negotiator

February 2, 2009 by Amy

Melissa asked…

There are definitely some things that ring true in this.
Amy…, you are a
BUILDER/negotiator
About Your Personality Type

You tend to be traditional. Home, family, job and community are all central to you. You like being firmly embedded in your social and business groups and you feel deeply responsible for just about everyone around you. You can be fiercely protective of those you love. You are skilled at managing people. You are sympathetic and cooperative; you are also hard working and display a good deal of caution and common sense. And you can be very patient. So you can complete detailed, painstaking jobs more easily than most people. You enjoy building social relationships. You have excellent verbal and people skills. You are talented at achieving solutions to complex problems so that all involved feel fulfilled. You have a hard headed too. You tend to respect rules, schedules and routines. You also see the big picture, have a fine imagination and can be remarkably intuitive. You like to play with ideas and examine the meaning of life. And because you have a genuine sense of community, you seek projects that enable you to contribute to a more stable world.

Builder primary traits
  • Traditional
  • Social
  • Loyal
  • Dependable
  • Patient
  • Community oriented
  • Orderly
Negotiator secondary traits
  • Sees the big picture
  • Imaginative
  • Intuitive
  • Verbal skills
  • Empathetic
  • Trusting
  • Introspective
In Love and Relationships
You are relaxed and easy to be with, so you attract a range of friends and admirers. But you are picky. You are attracted to those who share your values; moral fiber in a partner is important to you. You also admire those who respect rules, schedules, and traditions. And you particularly admire those who have a sense of social responsibility–who spend their time and money on events that are charitable or strengthen family, business or the community ties. You see the big picture and see way down the road; so you like to prepare for the future. And although you enjoy people who play with ideas, your “true love” must complement you. You admire those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy your orderly and compassionate nature.
Relating to others
You are somewhat stoical. You believe that difficulties are inevitable. With this practical attitude, coupled with your dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, you often become a central and effective player in your social and business networks. You are generally calm and entertaining, too, and always dedicated and reliable. And with your imagination and people skills, just about everybody likes you.
Things to be aware of
  • You can be so modest and self effacing that some are likely to regard you as a door mat. Speak up and defend yourself.
  • You can be overly critical of others.
  • Your caution can jeopardize your curiosity.
Spark Factor
You tend to naturally gravitate to the BUILDER/directors.
Words Builders use (unconsciously) to describe themselves

Builder
trustworthy
caring
respect
honesty
trust
Family
values
loving
loyal
moral/morals
Words Negotiators use (unconsciously) to describe themselves

Negotiator
empathetic/empathy
read/reader
learning/learn
passion/passionate
sensitive
kind/kindness
sweet
random
heart
real

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Comments

  1. Melissa Oyler says

    February 2, 2009 at 1:27 pm

    I do see some of you in this. Did Scott take the quiz?

  2. Amy says

    February 2, 2009 at 1:28 pm

    No, but just the words Builder and Director sound like him.

  3. heather says

    February 2, 2009 at 3:04 pm

    uhhh yeah. that sums you up

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