Archives for 2011

Introducing Entangled

October 24, 2011 by Amy 25 Comments

I have so many things I want to tell you about writing this eBook. And I suspect, in time, I will. But for now, I think the cover will speak volumes as an introduction and hopefully excite you about reading these chapters of my life that I’ve never fully divulged on Permission to Peruse, or otherwise. So without delay, here is the cover of my eBook:

Thank you to my friend, Melissa, for the design

Hopefully that communicates a lot about the direction of the book and doesn’t stun you too much. I am both terrified and ecstatic. God certainly led me to this point and I’m so excited to see what He’s up to. I’ve set the release date just a few short weeks away on Friday 11/11/11.

In the meantime, I would love it if you could go like the Facebook page so I can get an official URL. While you’re there, I would love it if you shared the Facebook page with your friends. If you’re on Twitter, be sure to use the hashtag #Entangled. Lots more details to come in the next few weeks!

Weekend Recap

October 24, 2011 by Amy 5 Comments

Lexi at her party on Saturday. She said the cream was banana-scented. Cracks me up!

We enjoyed a very laid-back weekend. The kids were out of school Friday so I worked from home and let them have a play date all day long. It’s amazing how kids can busy themselves for hours together. They had a fantastic time, although their bathroom and my closet were victims of the fun. Friday night we went out to Ruby Tuesdays and all enjoyed the salad bar. The kids were off to Scott’s parents for the night so you’d think Scott and I would have a great date night planned but no, these days we head straight to sleep. I still can’t believe I’m always the first one up these days.

Saturday morning I was up early doing edits on my eBook (I’m showing the title, cover and release date tomorrow!!) and then I convinced Scott to go with me to finally meet and have coffee with Sarah Cunningham. I read her book Picking Dandelions (go buy it!) a few months ago and connected to so much she was communicating. I knew we’d get along and at least from my perspective, we did just that over the next two hours. She was a great encouragement to me as an author, I enjoyed getting to know her a little more and it was great getting an update on One Thousand Premieres. If you haven’t checked that out yet, please do so. They are planning to retell the story of David and Goliath in a modern way and I am so psyched about it.

After that, we were off to the mall so I could get some jeans I could actually fit. Over the summer, yes, I let a few pounds creep on. And honestly? I’m not that motivated to work them off. I was happy to find Express had their jeans on sale AND I had a coupon.

Saturday afternoon Emma decided to stay over at Scott’s parents while Lexi went to a birthday party. We were all back together by dinnertime so I made some Tilapia and we played Monopoly.

Sunday morning was the normal these days…church, CVS and lunch. While Scott went on a bike ride and Emma stayed at Scott’s parents again, Lexi and I hung around the house (read: I worked on my book and she watched TV). Last night again we stayed in. We played Twister and Scott built a fire. Somewhere in the mix, Emma and Lexi were playing on our hammock and I think some strings got tangled and pulled and Lexi lost a tooth. Thankfully it was a baby tooth but oh the drama! We never did find the tooth. Last evening some friends came over to enjoy the fire that wouldn’t burn…all the wood was too green. Scott improvised by burning some paper and it didn’t matter anyway, we were having a great time talking.

So that was our weekend. I hope you had a great weekend and start to your week!

Breakfast in Bed

October 21, 2011 by Amy 5 Comments

The girls are off of school today and I’m working from home. I thought I’d give myself extra bonus points for still getting up early. It was still dark outside and I had a batch of pancakes going and K-Love playing in the background. Even though I usually have to drag the girls out of bed, they both stumbled into the kitchen at normal wake-up time. “Girls! Go back to bed, I’m making you breakfast in bed!” They’ve been begging for weeks since their grandmother sent home their trays. Their faces lit up and they dutifully went back to their room.

After it was all prepped, I carried their trays in and let them eat, getting a kiss as a thank you. I glossed over complaints about the chocolate milk not tasting right and even replaced Emma’s fork she didn’t want.

I went back to the kitchen to finish the batch and then walked back in the room to see how they were faring. I knew there was trouble when I saw a plate, off its tray and directly on the carpet. “Did something spill?” Lexi was quick to say, “Yes, Emma hid it under those pajama pants.” And sure enough some pajama pants had been wadded up to cover some syrup and pancake. I didn’t handle the next few minutes well really. I was more upset they had tried to cover it more than they had spilled it. But I wasn’t really happy they spilled it either.

Probably lots of morals to this story. Pride comes before the fall. It’s better to try and fail than not try at all. Parenting is hard. More proof we’re born with a deceitful heart. No good deed goes unpunished. I don’t know which one I was supposed to learn but I do know I learned a day off school, working from home and PMS aren’t really a good combination.

And the 2011 Christmas Card Begins

October 20, 2011 by Amy 18 Comments

My jaw just about dropped yesterday when I read a tweet saying there are only 66 days until Christmas. 65 today. And the days will just go by faster. How? How are we near the Christmas season in 2011?

This is the time of year I start thinking about Christmas cards and my yearly photo gifts and I start kicking myself in the rear end for not taking more pictures during the year. As the girls have gotten older, I’ve found that I’ve had less reasons to “grab the camera quick”! Yes, they are learning new things all the time but usually it’s happening up in that little brain of theirs instead of an outward manifestation like crawling or walking. Or, you know, smearing spaghetti all over their tray. In any case it IS time to start thinking about those cards and gifts.

Last year I super-duper LOVED my Shutterfly Christmas card.

The pictures meant a lot but I love the layout allowed me to share so many from that photo shoot. I’m ecstatic to say this year I’ll be using Shutterfly for our cards again thanks to a fabulous blogging program. If you have a blog, make sure to check out the end of the post!

It looks like they have some great holiday cards this year. Here are a few of my favorites:

Clearly I’m a sucker for cute little happy girls. Hm, wonder why?

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Letters, Vans, Fruits and Books

October 19, 2011 by Amy 1 Comment

Returning books to the library. It makes me happy. Except the $7 in fees.

I feel like I need a big catch up post. Nothing earth-shattering but I feel like a few updates are in order:

1 – We finally got a letter from DSS last week stating a worker had been assigned to our home study and would be contacting us about setting it up. It’s been about a week though and nothing. I had hoped we’d be approved by November but it’s looking like maybe the first of the year now. I’m not in a hurry though, I know this will all happen at the right time.

2 – The body shop called mid-post and said the van is ready! Woot! Our van is supposed to be done tomorrow! Once the body shop sent it to a mechanic to get the electrical stuff up, a pump went out that had to be replaced and then the electrical stuff wouldn’t come on so they sent it to Honda where they found a fuse out and another sensor. It’s all supposed to be fixed by tomorrow. We shall see. I do so miss my van terribly. The gas mileage and parking power of a little car is nice but, well, it’s not my van. I am shocked though that they have not totaled the van. My guesstimate is they have now spent at least $7,000! I’m so grateful though. If I’m going to have a used van, I want it to be mine with a lot of brand new parts!

3 – I started FINALLY going through the Fruits of the Spirit activities from ImpressYourKids.org with the girls this week. They are completely soaking it up. Last night though almost felt like a complete disaster and I nearly wanted to give in (only 3 days in!) but I ran into a verse in Galatians today and I’m certain I need some FORBEARANCE to continue the GOOD work in my children.

4 – Melissa is doing the final edit of my eBook. I think I have a release date picked and I’m going to be sharing more very soon (maybe the cover next week??). Let me just say again how awesome my friends are and I love they are pushing me to make this the best possible.

5 – These next two months are going to kick my butt. I have a HUGE project at work that will require near 24-7 attention for a few weeks. Add in the girls’ birthday parties, Thanksgiving and Christmas shopping and I ALREADY feel pooped.

I think 5 is enough! I hope your week is going well!

Weekend Recap

October 17, 2011 by Amy 4 Comments

Well, if the last few weekends were quiet ones at home, this weekend surely made up for it.

Friday night started out with dinner at Moe’s (Welcome to Moe’s!) and then some shoe shopping for me. We had a rainy picnic at work on Thursday and my favorite Rocket Dog gray silk flats were finally ruined. I was so very sad to see the exact ones were no longer available but I thought these black and white stripes were pretty cute.

And I had a coupon and needed one more pair. I’m really up for some tennis shoes but honestly, I can’t seem to make myself rock the neon shoes I’m seeing everywhere. So I went with these:

I didn’t think I’d ever get Sperry’s but I love the blue goes great with the blue jeans I’m always wearing. They are super easy to put on and super comfortable.

Saturday was our big day at Scott’s first mountain bike race. They did a 6 HOUR bike race. He duo’d with another guy he rides with so they took turns doing a 9 mile loop through the Greenway. Both of them got in 3 laps totaling 27 miles. Can you believe a group of guys also did the TWELVE hour race?

Above is Scott before his first lap and below is him taking off for his last lap. Unfortunately we couldn’t see any of the trail. One guy did sustain a concussion and got some pretty nasty bruises. Scott has taken some pretty bad spills in past weeks on their Sunday rides but fortunately he stayed injury free.

All the guys at Tailwind did great. One of them even finished 3rd overall!

Scott was exhausted afterwards. We spent the evening at home so he could recover. He had a blast though and I’m sure he’ll be talking about it for a long time.

Sunday we went to church, had lunch and then went off to a local farm to get a pumpkin. The girls had a blast with all the activities. Their favorite was this water pump game where you put a rubber ducky in the trough and pushed enough water to make it land in the far tub.

They also loved seeing the farm equipment.

Picking out our pumpkin.

And we just generally had fun getting out for the afternoon somewhere new.

This evening has been pretty quiet. We stayed in for dinner and took it easy. Thankfully even though the weekend was pretty busy, we’ve gotten plenty of sleep and I’m ready to start a new week!

A Safe Place on a Friday Afternoon

October 14, 2011 by Amy 4 Comments

Tough day today. And last night. I just got to one of my breaking points with so many things going on and wondering if I should be working. Nothing new here. I also had a massive headache come on about lunch time and my throat is sore. I feel generally run down even though I had a good 9-10 hours of sleep last night. Suffice it to say I’m ecstatic it’s the weekend.

I found this lovely music today on Spotify through my friend Lana. Beautiful worship music. Nothing like what’s on the radio or sung in churches. The album name is Chair and Microphone, Vol. 3. You can check it all out free on Spotify. I don’t know, it was just the perfect thing I needed for today. Maybe you too?

Safe Place

You are the one my heart is waiting for

You are my treasure,

You are my king,

You are the door

You hold me tight,

you hold me quiet You hold me safe

She’s Full of Grace

October 12, 2011 by Amy 3 Comments

“Grace is giving someone a gift they don’t deserve and that’s what my middle name is,” Emma paused in her explanation. We’ve gone over her name meaning a few times.
“Yes, and Emma means ‘full of’ so your names mean you’re full of grace.” I closed the car door as I finished the explanation and grabbed the girls hands. We were walking into the Speak Up magazine launch last night in an area of town we’d never been. It was getting dark and it was rainy and it’s not in the newest part of town. I didn’t feel unsafe but I think the kids did a little. I was glad to hear I could take the girls though since Scott was working and I wouldn’t have been able to go otherwise and I was truly glad they could come and see firsthand. It seemed like it was going to be a great teachable moment.

One of the vendors (low-income/homeless person selling the magazine) was at the party selling copies of the magazine. At the advice of Lana’s email earlier yesterday I had stopped at the ATM on the way to get $20 so we could buy our own copies. After we chatted at the party for a few minutes I took the kids out to the vendor to buy the magazines. A very gifted artist who is featured in one of the articles of the magazine (pictured above) was happy to help us. “I have $20 so whatever that will buy me! 6 and you can give me $2 change or 5 if you only have a $5,” I said happily. Dag was happy to oblige and gave me 6 with $2 change he pulled out of a hat keeping his money. I carefully explained on the way home that the magazines would be sold by homeless or jobless people to help them earn money. The girls asked if Dag was homeless and I replied I really didn’t know. They seemed to move on to other topics on the way home like how one of the new buildings downtown was lit up in rainbow colors unlike the red we had seen last time.

Last night as I was putting the girls to sleep Emma asked again about Dag. She said, “You know, next time someone buys magazines from someone like him and they have $20, they should, you know, just let him keep the $2. I think that would help him.” Like a punch in the gut, my eyes were opened. I hadn’t even thought about letting Dag keep the change. I was so excited about giving him business that I made it too much about business. “Yes, Emma, I don’t know why I didn’t think of it but I’ll do that next time. That would show a lot of grace, just like your name.” She gave me a big hug and Lexi understanding dawning says, “Mommy, you’re mean!” “Lexi, I’m not mean, I just didn’t think of it.” “Yeah, Lexi, Mommy wasn’t mean, she didn’t do it on purpose.”

I tried to teach my kids about giving and while I might have, I think they taught me a lot more about grace.