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My First Sewing Project – Cutting and Sewing

January 27, 2014 by Amy 12 Comments

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I cannot stress how much I’ve learned that sewing an apron has very little to do with actually sewing the thing together.  Sewing is about measuring, cutting, pinning and planning.  If you can get those things right, you are 85% there.

Unfortunately, I often did not get those things right.

The Cutting

As mentioned at the end of my last post, my next steps were cutting the pattern and then cutting the fabric.

I really wish I would have gotten more pictures of this step because I had a few mistakes worth sharing.

The very first thing I learned is what the selvage was on the fabric.  Related to the selvage, is the grain of the fabric.  Yes, this is how very little I knew.

The selvage is the edges of the fabric. You know, that little white line of fabric on the edge?  The grain of the fabric travels in the same direction.

So, the pattern instructions base everything off of those two ideas.  They tell you how to lay it out, whether it needs to be on the right side of the fabric, on the wrong and whether the pattern itself should be on the right or wrong side.

This was my first mistake.  I paid attention to the fabric side, but not the pattern direction so I ended up cutting 4 pieces of pattern incorrectly and had to re-cut them.  Thankfully, I had enough fabric left over.

My other mistake was to not take the notches seriously enough.  The pattern gives you places to notch out triangles so you can later line up pieces of fabric.  When I was cutting, I was like “eh, missed that one.”  How much I wish I would have paid better attention.  I got by but not without a lot of re-placing the pattern on top of the fabric.

And here’s the final thing I did not do I wish I did: write the number of the pattern piece on the back of the fabric.  This also would have helped tremendously.

The Sewing

Finally, the fabric was all cut correctly cut and it was finally—finally—time to sew.

The first step of the apron was to stitch the panels of the apron bib together.

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It was 4 simple, short, straight lines but let me tell you, I felt like I’d just climbed Mt. Everest.  By this point, I’d spent at least 2 or 3 hours cutting and re-cutting.  The very first seam felt like the precipice after a long hike.

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I had oh so much more to go, though.

Next was similarly stitching the panels of the skirt together and I was oh so proud until I realized that I’d entirely stitched them in the wrong order.  My skirt was well, a little catawampus at the top and not the pretty v-shape it was supposed to be.

My machine jammed up right about that time so Mom came to the rescue.

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She removed two of the panels and reordered them the right way.  And I learned my next lesson: you have to eyeball how all the pieces are fitting together as you go. 

Not only did she realize at this point that I’d stitched them in the wrong order, I had too much allowance for the seam. I had sewn it with 5/8” seam instead of 1/4”.  The liner of the skirt wasn’t fitting because it was now too big.  I had to rip the seams out of the entire skirt and sew them again.  Next lesson: learn well your machine.

All of this took me well into the evening.  I truly think I worked on it over 6 hours through the afternoon and evening. 

The next day, I tackled the hardest parts.

I had to pin and the sew the ric rac.

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Remind me never to buy a pattern which requires ric rac.  It’s cute, but not fun to sew on with lots of curves.

The next hurdle was getting the straps turned inside out. 

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These were tiny neck straps that were sewn inside out (as you do) but they had to get right side out.  Mom’s trick was to use a chop stick at the closed end and then pull the fabric on top of itself.  I ended up having to use tweezers to grab the tight fabric.  Unfortunately, I popped a few seams and had to go back at the end and hand stitch those holes back together.

After who knows how long, the straps finally were stitched on and things started moving faster.

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The liner to the bib was sewn on and then the bib was stitched to the skirt.

The skirt was very similar to this: ric rac, straps and then liner.

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During this process, I forgot to leave a hole for the apron to be turned inside out.  I had to go back and take out enough stitches for that. Once I turned it inside out, finally, FINALLY.

An apron:

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I was so happy I had actually done it.

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Yes, there were holes and panels weren’t laying perfectly at spots and seams were showing that probably shouldn’t have been, but it actually looked like an apron.

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I can’t quite remember a time I’ve felt so accomplished.

In all honesty, I’m not sure how much I’ll actually wear it.  I had Scott put a nail up so I could hang it in the kitchen.  It fits right in and I love walking by and remembering the process.

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A few takeaways:

  • I love sewing.  Even though little of it is actually sewing, I really enjoyed the whole process. 
  • More than just sewing, I really enjoyed learning to sew.  It was so much fun to learn something new that wasn’t from a book.  It was great to get my hands dirty, so to speak, and actually have something to show for it in the end.
  • Mistakes were critical to the learning process.  I made a ton of them, but that just means I learned a ton too.
  • If you really actually need an apron, just go buy one.  I spent $40 just in the pattern and fabric and I’d guess I spent somewhere around 15 hours start to finish.  Certainly, it can be done in a fraction of that time.
  • Sewing is less about the end product and more about the experience.  I found that just as I enjoy sitting down to read a book–that it is the process of reading, not the finished book–I enjoyed the process of sewing most.
  • Having help is fun.  Part of me wants to figure out new things on my own, but having my friend JoAnn and my mom’s help was fun. I got to watch them tap into a passion of theirs and share it.  We should all do that more often.

While I can’t recommend sewing for everyone, I do recommend you finally do that thing that’s always seemed interesting, but you’ve never taken the time to learn.  You may find it doesn’t live up to your expectations, but on the other hand, you might just find yourself having fun.

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A Few Friday Must-Reads

January 24, 2014 by Amy 2 Comments

I rarely do this, but there are a few posts around the Internet this week I hope you’ll read.

 

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First, my friend Mandy at Biblical Homemaking called for prayer and fasting this past Monday about abortion.  Before you click away, this isn’t a matter of whether it should be legal or not.  It is.  This is about helping the hurting.  Mandy has one of the most compassionate hearts and graceful writing voices. Read her post detailing the statistics and 5 things we can do as Christians to help.

 

Second, my friend Marla Taviano is a wonderful advocate for human trafficking issues.  This week she posted nine very simple things we can do to make an impact.

 

Third, Ann Voskamp wrote this week in How to Get Through the Dark Places about a man who ran for 544 miles straight.  The post is about light and darkness and I realize as I’m writing this it ties directly into the two posts above.

 

Clearly, God is moving his people, the light of the world, into the dark places.  We all should have a bit of time this weekend to prayerfully consider some next steps.  I’m going to reread these and do the same.

Have a wonderful weekend, friends!

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Meet Our New Van

January 23, 2014 by Amy 7 Comments

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In case you missed it on social media last night, we bought a van!  After much deliberation, we decided to get i4mt insurance and basically replace the van with nearly the exact same van and we made sure to Get a Campervan Insurance Quote.  We truly did love our van and especially loved not having a payment.  And at the end of the day (literally, at the end of Tuesday), it is the only course of action we felt peace about.

We feel blessed because the new one is a year newer, has 40,000 fewer miles, has a DVD player and was kept in immaculate condition.

So, as Lexi best put it last night, “Finally, we can quit looking for a car.”  I completely agree.  Car shopping is not fun.

I’m ready to move on, but God put a few reminders on my heart last night:

 

  • Just as a butterfly is first presented as a caterpillar, blessings are often presented as hardships.

 

  • When searching for the wise course of action, you cannot follow the most logical course of action your mind desires, you must search for the most peaceful course of action your soul needs.

 

  • Life comes in seasons.  It is not a fault to grieve seasons gone by unless we cannot be grateful for the new ones as well.

 

  • God is not good just because I was protected from harm or because we got a shiny new DVD player.  God is good because he is faithful even when we try to worry ourselves into a decision.  God is good because we can trust he loves us and wants the best for us.  God is good because he gives us his peace and puts our soul at rest when we follow him.  So yes, God is good!

 

Thank you, friends, that prayed and gave us wise counsel.

And now, let’s celebrate the new Swagger Wagon!

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A Weekend of Car Adventures and EdVenture

January 21, 2014 by Amy Leave a Comment

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I hope you enjoyed your long weekend, if you did indeed have one. I took a half-day off on Friday and then was off yesterday. I’d like to say it was glorious, but unfortunately it wasn’t all sunshine and rainbows.  We did have some great moments though.

 

Car Adventures

We found out at the end of last week that our van was totaled from the wreck.  We’ve been on a major hunt for the right next car.  I’ve mentioned a time or two how indecisive I am and such a big purchase is weighing heavy on me.  It’s probably part of the reason we had our van for 9 years with no end in sight.

We’re looking at several options, all with upsides and downsides.  We’ve looked at everything from a used 4-door sedan to a brand new van.  We spent hours at several dealerships this weekend, coming very close to purchasing a van, only to walk away when the numbers just didn’t work. 

We spent hours scouring Craigslist and AutoTrader and calling and texting and test driving cars.  The kids are tired of hearing, “We’re going to look at a car.”  We spent hours discussing every single angle to each purchase.

It’s been exhausting and tear-inducing.

I’m so thankful for choices, but it’s so stressful trying to make the wisest choice while trying to factor in everyone’s happiness, comfort, security and financial peace all while trying to predict maintenance problems of a used vehicle. With no decision in sight, I suppose what I’m saying is we’d appreciate your prayers. We finally found this Jaguar XF for Sale in Portsmouth and many other cars that were in perfect condition for us.

 

EdVenture

In the midst of all our car drama, we enjoyed a family day at EdVenture in Columbia, SC.  EdVenture is the South’s largest children’s museum.  The girls were most excited about their World of Work exhibit.  Basically, the entire downstairs is sectioned into rooms, each featuring a job they can explore hands-on.

Emma was most excited about the grocery store which included a working scanner and register.

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Lexi was most excited about the veterinary clinic.

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Emma also loved the dentist.

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And Lexi loved the surgery area.

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I only wish we had gone years ago. While they clearly had fun, most of the activities were geared towards younger children.  We bypassed several areas because the girls felt like it was too childish.  Five or six years ago we wouldn’t have been able to tear them away.  If you have preschoolers or early elementary aged kids, you should high-tail it Columbia.

Still, it was a nice road-trip for us and as a bonus, we got to have dinner on the way home with our friends David and Dani who moved near Columbia last year.

 

Highs and lows, it still was a nice break from work with lots of time together.  How was your weekend?

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My First Sewing Project – The Pattern and Fabric

January 16, 2014 by Amy 9 Comments

One of my goals for this year is to complete one sewing project. We bought Emma a sewing machine for Christmas and while my goal for her is to complete her first project, I am doing one alongside her as well.

For those that don’t know me well, you should know my mom is a seamstress. She owns her own custom drapery and blinds business.  I’ve been around sewing my whole life.  We took some lessons but didn’t ever seem to catch onto it like her. I’m determined to get back on the proverbial horse and learn how to do this thang.

So, one afternoon my mom met me and the girls at Jo-Ann’s in Charlotte.  All we knew is we needed an easy pattern and some fabric and beyond that, we were clueless.  What pattern is actually easy?  What fabric will actually work with what pattern?  What other little thingies from the store will we need?  Basically, we were clueless.

Let me just say how totally overwhelming the fabric store is.  Not only are there many different types of fabrics but there are many different colors, with many different patterns in many different sizes.  And if you have to coordinate more than one fabric together, just…I can’t even. For this terrible decision maker it was like a nightmare.  Pick ALL THE FABRICS and make it look CUTE!  Now I know why people spend hours in fabric stores and are so very proud of their end products.

After much wandering around in circles looking like a deer in headlights, Lexi and I decided to both do this apron:

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Emma decided to make a cozy pajama set but that will have to wait for another post.

To make it easier (or maybe just fewer decisions) I’m not doing alternating fabrics.  Here’s the fabric I picked that will be the top and skirt.

 

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I wanted something that would coordinate with my interior colors so I can hang it on a hook in my kitchen and use it for decoration.  As you can see in the background, the colors are right up my usual alley.

 

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For the sash at the waist, I went with a coordinating orange that has a small pattern in it.

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And then, for the edging you use rick rack and I picked a red.

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So I think cute, right?

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The only problem?  No one told me I should maybe peek at the price tag.  Holy cow.  Once I master this, I could sell aprons for like $86 a piece!

 

Next steps are cutting out the pattern and then cutting out the fabric from the pattern.   And there’s the secret that no one tells you about sewing: it’s take a heckofalotof work to get to the sewing part.

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6 Things to Do When You Fail at Your Goals

January 15, 2014 by Amy Leave a Comment

Ahhh!

We’re halfway through January already! And if you’re like me, your goals are already starting to slip through your fingers—and that’s putting it nicely.  When we fail at meeting our goals, it’s really easy to slip into believing we’re failures at everything and give it all up.  But it doesn’t have to be that way!

Follow me over to Giving Up on Perfect for 6 Things to Do When You Fail at Your Goals.

 

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If you’re popping over from Giving Up on Perfect, welcome!  If you’re a friend of Mary’s, I just know we’re going to get along!  You’ll find posts about faith, family, fashion, frugality and fun here.  Let’s connect!  Subscribe for posts in email or like AmyJBennett on Facebook.  You’ll also find me on Pinterest , Instagram and Twitter.

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The Wreck, Part Deux

January 13, 2014 by Amy 7 Comments

Well.  The first big surprise of 2014 has shaken us.

On early Friday morning I was on my way home from taking the girls to school.  I was on a busy two lane road, nearly home.  There is an intersection with an entrance to a large neighborhood on the left and just across the street is a road with a stop sign.  Two cars were waiting to turn left into the neighborhood, several cars were waiting at the stop sign and many other cars were traveling both directions on the street I was traveling south on, but I always feel safe thanks to the One Sure Insurance that I use.  Just as I was approaching the intersection, a Camaro that had been traveling north pulled out in front of me to turn left onto the side street.  A blur of silver went to my right and then I was hitting the back of the car.

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You know how sometimes you know you’re going to wreck and you slam on brakes and throw out your hand to protect the passenger?  I didn’t do that this time.  I didn’t see the crash getting ready to happen even for a split second.  One second I was driving and the next I was wrecking.

That was only half of the wreck, though.  What happened at this point was mostly recounted to me.

After I hit the car, my van bounced into the middle of the street.  The Camaro had been pushed into a Honda Pilot that was waiting at the stop sign.  The driver of the Honda Pilot meant to slam on her brakes but instead gunned the gas so she zoomed into the intersection and hit the back end of my van.

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I was just realizing I had hit a car the first time and getting my bearings when I felt the second crash.

I was shaken but not hurt. All of our right side airbags deployed, but I didn’t hear or see when.

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Bella had been sleeping in the passenger seat and had been thrown in the floorboard.  She wasn’t whimpering, just looked surprised, and immediately crawled up to me, shaking like a leaf–which she would continue to do for the next 90 minutes. 

I got out of the van and ensured no one was seriously hurt and then gathered Bella and my phone and called Scott who was working in the next town.

After that was a blur of fire trucks, police cars and such.  We were there for over 2 hours.  I later found out that several area schools didn’t count tardies because the traffic jam had held so many up.

I was SO thankful the girls were not with me and that no one was injured.  Even though it certainly wasn’t in our plan to deal with this, it is a minor inconvenience compared to what could have happened.

A few might recall the wreck we had over two years ago with the same van.  Based on the damage from that as well as input from the body shop and others, we fully expect the van to be totaled.

As you might recall in my yearly goals, one of our big financial goals this year was to start saving for a new van.  Our plan just got accelerated.  We spent quite a bit of time looking at some vans in the area over the weekend.  We have our eye on a newer Toyota Sienna a friend is selling, but I admit I will miss having my Honda.

The girls are handling it well.  I went to the school to tell them what happened on Friday and let them know to look for the rental car at school pick-up.  Both were concerned most about Bella and whether we were going to get a new car.  Lexi still has not warmed up to the idea that we will likely not have a carbon copy of our Odyssey.

 

A few more thoughts from the wreck:

Even when you do everything right, bad stuff still happens.  My phone was tucked in my purse, the radio was off, I wasn’t distracted by anything in the car, I wasn’t speeding.  There’s nothing I could have done to prevent this accident.  It’s just life. It happens.

It’s never too early to prepare.  Scott and I have been saying for years we needed to prepare our savings to buy a new van.  It’s that moment you want to rewind and tell yourself to start saving your money.  We aren’t stressed by the money, but our decisions would be easier if we had prepared like we knew we should have.

Life changes in an instant.  It really is amazing how everything can change in a few seconds.  I wrote it not two weeks ago that this year would bring us surprises, but it still surprised me. How fleeting life is and how little we truly control.

 

Life has continued mostly normal through the weekend and every time, I stop and say thank you for the normal.  Thank you that I have to go buy a birthday present at Walmart, thank you that we get to have dinner with friends, thank you that I’m standing and singing on Sunday morning at church, thank you that I’m cleaning my kids’ room.  It’s all grace—the surprises and the mundane.

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Saving Hundreds a Year and Avoiding Appointments By Cutting My Own Hair

January 9, 2014 by Amy 20 Comments

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About two years ago I decided I’d had enough of paying nearly $100 every time I went to the stylist every 6-8 weeks.  Let me do the math for you—anywhere from $6-800 a year.  So, I started growing my hair out.  With a longer, simpler hair cut, I figured I could afford the chance at getting a cheaper cut.  If someone really messed it up, I could have it fixed. And really, Scott prefers it longer. 

Plus, I’m terrible at making hair cut appointments –or any appointments for that matter.  What is it about calling someone and having to commit to a time??

For several months while I was growing it out, I used some Groupons to help with the money issue, but the scheduling issue still lingered.

In August 2012, I had my last professional hair cut.  I started trimming my hair, following the stylist’s last lines.  But soon, my hair was a few inches past my shoulders and started looking scraggly.

It was ‘do or die time.

Would I just be a grown-up and make the appointment and fork out the cash or attempt it on my own?

Oh, you guessed it, I decided I would try it.  My hair is super thin and I had a few extra inches of hair so if I screwed it up, I’d go in and let someone fix it.

I am very happy to say that not only was the process doable, it was actually fun.  Maybe I missed my calling.  Nah, probably not. However, there was something extremely freeing about letting myself adjust my hair cut as I wanted.  No money, no appointment.  It’s totally working for me.

I followed this YouTube tutorial to cut a long, layered hair cut.

 

Is it perfect? Probably not.  Definitely not.  But it works for me.

If you have short hair or super thick hair or curly hair, I can’t say I’d recommend this.  Thin, straight hair is a benefit for once.

Have you ever cut your own hair?

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