Are you unsure what an emotional affair is or wonder what one looks like? The following list is an excerpt from my eBook Entangled. It’s not an exhaustive list of ways to recognize if you’re in an emotional affair and there are many more details in the book. But if these spark something in you, I want to highly encourage you to read Entangled.
- You think about him all the time.
- Your daydreams are consumed with him.
- Songs make you think of him. You may or may not share lyrics.
- You write poems or stories reflecting feelings or fantasies.
- You think of him when you dress or fix your hair.
- You confess dreams or feelings for each other.
- When you’re not together you remain connected. Your spouse is unaware.
- You desire to see him or being where you know he will be.
- You refer to each other as girlfriend/boyfriend or office wife/husband.
- You wish you’d never met your husband or you fantasize his death.
You can check out more about the book at the site EntangledBook.com
This list is linked with Top Ten Tuesday over at ohamanda.com.
I just read your book it was/awesome thanks for sharing it. I got the link off Cindy Bealls blog. I had an emotional affair once but it ended quickly thank goodness my husband intervened and the guy who was my hubby best friend just left us, I know now he was saving our marriage even though it was hard for us to see him go. He was easy to talk to and joke around. I had the hardest time but then I could concentrate on my marriage. I’m so glad you and Scott worked it out I will continue to pray for you. I just found your blog so I will enjoy reading it, thanks for sharing your story I pray it helps so many women out there who are in or were in emotional affairs.
Blessings Sarah:-)
Sarah, thank you so much for the feedback. I’m praying with you that it makes a difference and so glad God spared us in ours!