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Adoption Approval

March 13, 2012 by Amy 7 Comments

bigstockphoto_stack_of_papers_1196666 Although I announced on Facebook and Twitter, I couldn’t let another blog post be written until I said here that  we got final approvals on the adoption.  I emailed yesterday just to get an update and the DSS worker said that the home study had been turned in, approved and the only thing lacking was a letter out to us.  We haven’t gotten the letter but I confirmed that all approvals were complete. 

Our paperwork is done.

My first reaction was just happiness.  I honestly couldn’t wipe the grin off my face. This is really happening.  But I won’t lie, I’m scared to death.  I think Scott is too.  As you can imagine, it’s just one big question mark on how this is all going to turn out.  So many variables play into this we cannot even begin to guess on which to worry about.  It’s just like standing in front of a pitch black cave.  No idea if there’s gold or a bear awaiting you.  No idea if you should run in glee or run the opposite direction to save your life.  I’ve said it many times but I’ll say it again that this is a complete God thing.  I believe with my whole being that if God brings us to it, He’ll bring us through it.  That doesn’t mean easy that just means He’ll know what to do in the hard parts.

So I get really scared and then I go see little fellas like this one and a lot of the fear goes away.  Sure, there are still a lot of unknowns but he isn’t unknown.  Something about seeing a face does something different to the story, doesn’t it?

Many have asked what the next steps are.  From now, we are available to be matched.  They have a group of DSS folks that sit down in a conference room with available parents and available children and basically duke it out to figure out who should be presented to whom.  If we are chosen as a candidate, we will be brought in and presented with all of the child’s information that is known.  If we proceed, we get to have an in-office visit with him.  If that goes well, we will have some in-home visits.  If that goes well, we will have an extended stay at our house which will ultimately move to full adoption process if it goes well.  At any time before the adoption is final, we can “give him back”.  It sounds insensitive but they do want to ensure that the child is placed in the right home. 

The amount of time before we are matched is unknown.  It could be as little as two months and up to years.  I’ll admit it makes all the unknowns even more unknown.  Do we plan Christmas with another child or will the kids be in middle school before all this goes down?  We don’t know and the bottom line is we can’t plan.

If you aren’t already, can you please pray for us?  I’m not feeling anxious in the least as far as anxious to have this part over with.  I’m at complete peace with the timing.  It’s after we are placed that I’m a little fearful of.  But please do pray for timing, a God-ordained match so much that it’s clear that it’s a God thing, and also please pray for Emma and Lexi.  Lexi has been having a hard time with the concept lately and I just want to be able to handle that correctly.  I’m fine with her not being ok with it if that makes sense.  It might be part of her testimony that she’s not ok with it.  I just want to respond accordingly so God gets done what He wants done.  And finally, do pray for me and Scott that we have the patience, selflessness, love and wisdom we need through the rest of this process.

Thank you all so much for your support already, I’m so glad to have you along on the journey.

Filed Under: adoption

Weekend Recap

March 12, 2012 by Amy 2 Comments

Friday night was a tad unusual for us.  First off, I need to tell you about dinner.  I fixed spaghetti but this time I used quinoa noodles. Both girls had seconds and Scott declared it the best spaghetti I’d ever made.  For local folks, I got them right off the shelves at Harris Teeter.  I love that their tag line is “You’ll never go back to ‘plain’ noodles again.”  It’s all true.  We won’t.

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So after our delicious spaghetti, I got the kids off to Scott’s parents’ for the night but Scott had been at the chiropractor’s office since lunch time. He had agreed to trade out some work but realized quickly that he bit off a bit more than he could chew.  So after I took the girls, I headed to the office with him and helped him clean.  He had taken down a wall so there was dry wall dust everywhere.  I had my Dyson and I have to say it was a tad weird to vacuum the elevator in the same building where I used to take my kids to the pediatrician.  You know those moments where you go in one place when it’s being used for what you’re used to and then you go when it’s closed, everything seems eerie?  Like maybe the church sanctuary when all the lights are shut off?  It was that kind of weird.  Like, I used to carry my baby in this elevator when she was 3 months old to get shots in the office on the 2nd floor and now she’s 9 staying with her grandparents and I’m vacuuming it at 9:30 on a Friday night.  Just weird.  ANYWAY.

Saturday morning Scott and I decided to get some errands done.  I somehow managed to get him to go to Hobby Lobby with me.  I bought some candles that have timers on them for my new sconces in my bedroom.  They come on at whatever time you turn them on and then stay on for five hours.  I love walking into the bedroom after the day and seeing them on.  

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After that, we went to a local farmer’s market to get some dirt for my new raised beds Scott built for me.  Yes, we are actually doing this.  I will have a victory dance the first time I eat a vegetable from my garden.  In fact, I may not eat it.  I might just set it on a shelf like a prize. Just kidding. I’m going to eat it.  Actually, I may have to sell it to pay for all the wood and dirt.

Saturday evening we headed out for some Mexican.  It was the first time we’d eaten out in nearly 2 weeks and I admit it felt a little like I was cheating on my kitchen.  I was disappointed to find out they put flour in their refried beans.  What’s a Mexican trip without refried beans and rice?  Well, a taco and a lot of chips and salsa it turns out.  It was still yummy and it was nice to get a break from cooking.

Sunday was church, dinner at Scott’s parents’, an afternoon at my parents’ and a whole lot of grocery shopping. I’m telling you, the grocery bill hurt this week.  It was kind of ok the first week, uncomfortable the second and third but this fourth week of spending hundreds of dollars on groceries is downright painful.  I keep telling myself it’s almost like medication.  It’s healing our bodies and preventing who knows what.  But still.  It hurts.

Know what else hurts? The Monday morning after Daylight Savings Time switches.  Scott, the early riser, is at work today and I just could not make myself get up without any sunlight outside.  We got up 30 minutes late and rushed so we were only about 10 minutes behind regular schedule.  But ouch.  Not a great way to start a week.  Hope your weekend went well and your week is great!

Filed Under: what i did today

How We’re Coping with Gluten-Free – Week 3

March 9, 2012 by Amy 9 Comments

We’re going on 3 weeks of our diet changes.  One thing I want to be clear is Lexi is not particpating fully in either of these.  While she eats some of the gluten-free products and I make all of our dinners GF and milk free, she still eats the regular bread, cereal, ice cream, etc.  And while Emma is milk-free, Scott and I are not.  So we drink regular milk, have GF products that have milk in them, etc.  So basically we’re managing 3 different diet needs.

But even that said, this week was SO MUCH better than last.  So much.  While I’m not 100% happy with what we ate (wish we could have had less red meat, less grains and more veggies), we ate and there was very little complaining.  I was tallying it up last night and I realized I had cooked every meal for ten days straight other than Sunday dinner at Scott’s parents’.  That’s a lot of meals in a row for me.  I’m sure it’s some sort of record.  And I have to say, this week I kind of liked it.  While our grocery bill has obviously gone up, our eating out category has drastically dropped and it feels good to know that while the meals aren’t perfect, it’s a lot better than fast food.  And ya’ll?  I like the meal planning.  It’s worked out great for us to either shop on Saturday or Sunday and buy for the whole week.

I thought I’d share some recipes and products that have absolutely saved us these past 3 weeks, broken down my meals.

Breakfast

  • Van’s blueberry waffles.  Emma eats these every morning with syrup.  OJ for a drink.
  • Granola bars.  I sub with Bob’s Mill gluten free oats and Bob’s Mill gluten-free all purpose flour (and 1.5 tsp of xanthum gum so it will hold together) and I have a bar every morning for breakfast with some OJ.  Emma would eat these but she can’t have the butter in them.
  • I bought Bob’s Mill Pancake mix but haven’t tried it.
  • Crystal swears by these waffles.
  • We also do bacon, eggs or a smoothie as alternates.

Snacks

  • Lots of fruits for the girls when they’re at home.  Their favorites are bananas, apples, grapes and kiwi.
  • Zucchini bread
  • Banana bread
  • Smoothies with Silk Vanilla Almond Milk

I always have at least one of those breads made.  I alternate between the two and Emma eats that for snack after school.  I’m pretty sure she would eat the entire loaf if I let her.  I wish it didn’t have so much sugar in it but I’m just going with it for now.

Lunch

  • Rudi’s or Udi’s Gluten-free bread.  It’s not the best thing ever but Emma has been a trooper and eats her PB&J’s at school.
  • Vegan mayo.  I use this to make Emma some tuna salad for her.  Sometimes I put it on bread for lunch and sometimes she just eats it as a snack after school.
  • Glutino’s pretzels.  Both the girls love these.
  • Pre-packaged fruit.  I don’t know what it is but they hate eating fresh fruit at school.  Is it not cool?  I don’t know.  But the packaged fruit is the next best thing.
  • Applesauce packs

Dinner – main course

  • Steaks
  • Salsa chicken in the crock-pot.  Just put a few chicken breasts and a jar of salsa in.  Shred it towards the end.  You can either make tacos out of it, put it over rice or just eat it separate.
  • Spaghetti with alternate noodles.  We tried rice noodles last time and trying quiona noodles tonight.
  • Manwich.  We tried Rudi’s hamburger buns and they were horrible.  They soaked in all the juice and made it very dry.  We all ended up opening up the sandwich and eating the meat plain which was just fine.
  • Sweet potato chili.  This was delicious.  Scott’s parents and my sister all tried it and liked it.  Lexi wasn’t a fan and I think she hate some sort of leftover that night.
  • Amy’s gluten-free, dairy-free spinach pizza.  Emma will eat the spinach pizza but I buy Lexi and Amy’s small cheese pizza and just bake them together.
  • BBQ.  Put a boston butt in your crockpot all day with a little water, salt and pepper. Shred after you get it out.
  • Pot Roast.  I don’t like potatoes and carrots in mine so I just put a chuck roast in with one package of onion soup mix and 1/4 cup of water.  I even made the gravy with corn starch.

Dinner – sides

  • Baked potatoes.  Earth fare has non-dairy cheese and sour cream Emma uses while the rest of us use  regular.
  • Refried beans.  Emma didn’t like these but Scott and I loved them with the salsa chicken.
  • Any kind of Alexia potato fries. We’ve done both yukon gold and sweet potato.
  • Spinach.  Turns out we like spinach.  Lexi of course hated it but Emma asked for me to make it the next night.
  • Cauliflower mashed potatoes.  I made this with the roast and put the roast gravy on them.  No one knew it was cauliflower instead of potatoes.  Amazing.  It felt so good to get up from that meal and not feel too full.
  • I also use canned or frozen corn, green beans, carrots or peas as a side.

Desserts

  • Chocolate Cookies
  • Earth fare Gluten-free chocolate chip cookies
  • Dairy Free ice cream.  You can get this in any store.  Just look for a yellow wrapping at the top.
  • Oatmeal raisin cookies.  These didn’t bake well for me but it still tasted good.
  • Peanut butter cookies

Miscellaneous

  • Smart butter is what I use for Emma on popcorn, potatoes, bread.  I actually really like it and use it too.
  • Dino’s BBQ sauce. I got this recommendation from Katie and it’s really fabulous if you like it both sweet and a little kick.  It was too hot for Emma and Lexi hated it but Scott and I loved it.
  • Agave nectar for sweetner in smoothies and coffee

So that’s what the last 10 days or so have looked like.

In really good news, Scott has seen no acid reflux at all.  Before, he would only see a few good days in a row before he’d need to take some medicine.  He did have one incident this week when he ate gluten by mistake and threw it all up that night.  The doctor said it was a normal reaction when you are cleansing yourself from gluten.  He also said it could be related to the bad fats they used to make it.  I think that speaks a lot to how his body must be changing because of the diet changes.

Emma has only had one stomach ache in the past week and it was one morning she woke up and I can’t say it wasn’t just because she was hungry.  She was fine as soon as she ate.  She also has been MUCH more regular.

As for me, I’ve lost another pound or two, I rarely get bloated and my skin is looking so much better.  Someone at work just saw me for the first time in a few weeks and immediately commented on my weight and skin.  That was a great confirmation for me.  I’m just enjoying having no cravings.  For at least a week now, I haven’t had ANY food after dinner.  We eat between 5 and 6 and sometimes don’t go to sleep until 10 or 11.  I think that’s huge.

Truth be told, I’m not sure we’ll go back to gluten.  This week really proved to me we could happily be gluten-free and I’m not impatiently counting down until our check-up at the end of the month.  Feels great!

Filed Under: children, friends and/or family, Recipes

He Seeks

March 8, 2012 by Amy 2 Comments

Since finishing the Bible a few weeks ago, I struggled to get back into a reading routine.  I have a stack of probably 20 books I’ve queued to read and yet I couldn’t jump into them.  But there’s this one book that has completely captured my attention and it was suggested by one of the ladies in our Bible in 90 Days accountability group.  The Promised One: Seeing Jesus in Genesis.

I love Genesis.  I’m almost certain it is one of my favorite books of the Bible.  Once you start seeing the Bible for the story it is, the connections to Jesus and the full circle moments are astounding.  For anyone that would say the Old Testament is unessential or antiquated I’d beg you to start reading.  The intricacies that God planned out are just beautiful. 

The Promised One’s first section was on the creation.  I was shocked to see the similarities between the creation story and Jesus.  Here are just a few:

Genesis Reference to Jesus
In the beginning God created. Jesus was the Word going out at creation and doing the work of creation
Ps. 33:6 and John 1:1-3
The Spirit of God hovered over the emptiness before creation The Spirit came upon Mary to conceive
Luke 1:34-35
And there was light Jesus is the great light
Isa 9:2 and John 8:12
Let us make man in our images, after our likeness Jesus is the exact representation of God
Col 1:15 and Hebrews 1:3

 

The connections goes on through Genesis 1.  I don’t want to list them all because I don’t want to spoil it.  It’s such a rush looking these up and seeing them. Really seeing them.  Of course I’d heard all of these in bits and pieces but to bring it all together like this is pretty amazing.

The one that really got me today was in the second section where we study the fall of man.

 

Genesis Reference to Jesus
“They heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day.” Luke 19:10 says Jesus came to seek and save that which was lost

 

Let that sink in for a moment.  In the same way that God came looking for Adam and Eve in the garden, knowing they had done the one thing they weren’t supposed to, Jesus came into our world seeking us in our sin.  He seeks us in our sin.  Do you get that?  He’s not a God that pushes us by the wayside when we do something wrong.  He doesn’t leave us to figure it out on our own.  He seeks us.  Just like he said to Adam and Eve, he says “Where are you?” “What have you done?”  Not to condemn us but to bring forth a confession in order to redeem us and bring us back to Him.  Yes, I’ve heard this before but something stirred fresh inside me this morning when I thought again of his great love for me.

I don’t know why this just came to me, but Beth Moore’s sister has a powerful story of how God absolutely chased her down in the pit of alcoholism and redeemed her life.  Whether it’s an addiction or indifference, he’s still seeking.

So here’s my challenge for today.  Jesus is walking with you.  He wants to talk to you.  He’s seeking you out just as you are.  Answer him.

Filed Under: spiritual stuff

American Idol Top 13

March 7, 2012 by Amy 2 Comments

 

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Whitney Houston and Stevie Wonder.  I just wonder if they’re setting these contestants up to fail.  The one person they always say not to sing and then they make every single girl sing it.  Hmph.  Tonight was pretty rough for me in the first half but the second delivered a few gems.  I also have to admit it was very sad for me to hear the phrase, “I didn’t grow up listening to Whitney.”  Sad, folks!  OK, so let’s get to it.

Joshua – I love Joshua and he sang it alright but I just felt like the song choice was poor.  It came across like a cheesy show opener.

Elise – This definitely wasn’t her gig but I still appreciated the full rich parts of her voice.

Jermaine – This was by far my favorite performance from Jermaine so far in the competition.  But I’m not sure how much that’s saying since he has yet to wow me.

Erika – I just don’t see what the judges see.  I think she sings everything right and all but I just don’t enjoy her staying in that low register for so much of the song. 

Colton – That was rough for me.  I can’t stand how he slurs his words.  I barely understood half of what he said.  The end got a lot better though and I love when he belts those notes.

Shannon – Yikes!  Where was our beauty pageant moment?  This should have been a slam dunk for her and that key change was just horrendous.  I feel bad because I think she probably CAN do the song.

Deandre –I didn’t care for this much at all.  It’s interesting Stephen mentioned Nyema because I wasn’t much of a fan of hers either.

Skylar – I was nearly clapping when Mary said to dial it down.  Exactly what a mentor needed to tell her and it sure did pay off.  I really, really enjoyed that.  She can slay a note but it’s nice to see her build to that instead of feeling like you get a beat-down the entire song.

Heejun – Have I mentioned this post how much I love Heejun.  “I love you more than Jimmy.”  He’s a RIOT.  This probably wasn’t my favorite song of his.  It was pretty enough it just didn’t blow me away.

Hollie – Hollie totally stole the show at this point.  That was right up her alley and I found myself singing along and actually feeling like I was listening to a Whitney song.

Jeremy – Jeremy hasn’t wowed me to date but I felt like that was beautiful.  His tone really shined through for me tonight.

Jessica – Ya’ll I just cried through her entire song.  That was so perfect and so Whitney. A little of me mourned Whitney’s death for the first time and at the same time celebrated that Jessica just pulled that off.  Wow.  I honestly don’t know that I’ve ever cried watching this show.  Simply breathtaking.

Phillip – Phillip just makes me smile.  I love to watch him sing and play and he’s just got this cool vibe and looks so cute doing it.  I really don’t even know if the judges know how to judge him just because he’s so unique.

Favorites: Jessica, Hollie, Skylar, Phillip

In trouble: Deandre

Filed Under: tv Tagged With: american idol, hollie, jessica sanchez, phillip phillips, skylar, stevie wonder, whitney houston

Movie Review: John Carter – GO SEE IT!

March 7, 2012 by Amy 10 Comments

JC_1-sht_Payoff_v19 This is not a typical movie review for me.  Not just a checkmark for a blog post in exchange for free movie tickets.  Pretty please read this. There are no spoilers so, read on!

You all know my love for Friday Night Lights, right?  I mean, LOVE.  If you don’t know my love, you should know I helped create a fan site, ran a podcast and even visited the set in Texas two years ago.  Like, serious fandom here.  I loved every single character from Friday Night Lights (Texas Forever!) but we all know I geeked out a little for Riggins.  I mean, who didn’t love 33?  For reals. 

Taylor Kitsch’s first movie since FNL is this John Carter (of Mars – which they dropped last minute).  I admit, I was REALLY SCARED for 33.  Can Riggs really pull off being a super hero in a sci-fi?  Am I really even interested in spending 90 minutes (it’s actually 2 hr 10 min) watching aliens on Mars? I’m not a fan of sci-fi.  The promos were super sketchy.  His voice was altered in some way and there were really weird things showing up on screen.  I just was terrified Kitsch’s career was over post-FNL.  In fact, I nearly canceled watching the screening because I just was so uninterested in seeing this movie.

But ya’ll.  Ya’ll!!!!!!

John Carter was AWESOME.

You know how you watched Avatar and it was a bunch of weird looking people but you really loved all the weird looking people and there was a heart and a cause to the storyline?  That’s the closest thing I can come to this story.  I also think of Sherlock Holmes where it’s a period piece and the writing is really SMART.  (PS Mark Strong from Sherlock Holmes is in the movie.)

First off, I need to say I know nothing about John Carter of Mars from the books.  I’m just an uninitiated movie- goer.  I went into this thinking it was going to be just an overblown action movie but it turns out this is truly a character story.  What they don’t highlight in previews is John Carter’s history on Earth and then the conclusion back on Earth and you see this troubled guy and watch him evolve and by the end of the movie it’s so satisfying you just want to fist pump and clap in glee. 

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Taylor Kitsch completely blew me away. The days of Riggins are simply a shadow of this actor that showed up in this movie.  He delivered lines with confidence, showed emotion like Riggs and had the physicality of a super hero.  It wasn’t cheesy at all. 

The other characters are amazing.  Did you know William Dafoe (Spiderman) was in this?  How about Mark Strong (Sherlock Holmes)?  Or Thomas Haden Church? The female character played by Lynn Collins (X-Men Origins: Wolverine) was strong and smart and she just knocked my socks off to tell you the truth.  I really thought she was just going to simply be eye-candy for the guys but they really played to her intellectual and physical side.  And I don’t just mean sexual physical side although she certainly was sexy in the movie and was only half-dressed for the whole thing. 

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They had this adorable dog-ish character that really lightened the mood.  In fact, there were several humorous moments but not enough to take away from the action.

What I love too is that aside from the violence it was a clean movie.  Only one swear word I remember and that was just to the dog so he would get out of harm’s way.  No sexually overt scenes other than that they were barely dressed but I honestly was not distracted by it.  The violence wasn’t even gruesome.

I’m telling you, this really blew me away.  I am so pumped for Kitsch and so glad his career is going to sky-rocket after this movie.  X-Men was pre-FNL, his movie The Bang, Bang Club certainly didn’t get the coverage he needed but this is going to be his turning point on the big screen.  He’s got Battleship with Rihanna, directed by Pete Berg (also directed FNL) next and then Savages with John Travolta after this.  He’s going to be a huge movie star.  Just don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Do not let the sci-fi-ness of the promos scare you away.  I really think they’re playing to the wrong strengths of this movie.  If you like a movie with a good storyline, likable characters, a good romance and some serious action, you’re going to love this!  Here, I’ll even link you over to Fandango to go get your tickets!  Go!

 

Disclosure: Disney gave me two free tickets in exchange for the blog post. I loved it anyway though and all thoughts are my own. Clearly.

Filed Under: movies Tagged With: john carter, movie review, taylor kitsch, william dafoe

The Four-poster Bed

March 6, 2012 by Amy 7 Comments

OK so last Tuesday I posted all the options for a headboard in our master bedroom.  Out of the blue, this four poster bed came charging out as the obvious winner. 

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I mean, never in my dreams have I envisioned a four poster bed in there.  Usually those huge four poster beds are way too traditional for my taste.  I picked that bed last minute as an off-the-wall choice. But something about seeing it in the room was like a magic slipper.  Pumpkins turned to coaches and suddenly my bedroom had its ball gown.  Or something like that.  I just knew it was right. 

I hadn’t even paid attention where I had grabbed that image from and was disappointed to find out it was Pottery Barn. 

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Pottery Barn is gorgeous but I am way too cheap to buy something full-price there and this bed especially was just too much.  Technically I had the money to buy it but I just couldn’t.  And there’s your tidbit for today.  Just because you have the money to buy something doesn’t mean you should.  More on that later.

A quick Craigslist search turned up nothing but those big traditional four poster beds of my nightmares.  I called a local furniture shop last last week where I got the mirrored nightstands and while they solidly beat Pottery Barn’s price it was still just too much. I couldn’t find peace in getting it.  As with all decorating dilemmas, Mom declared we’d just hold out and watch Craigslist. 

Mom calls me Sunday night and says, “I found your bed, go look at your email.”  I was already in bed so I checked my phone and I’m pretty sure I heard angels singing.  It was the perfect bed. Better than ANY of the four poster beds I had found.  If I could have dreamed up a perfect four poster bed, this would be it.  But like any Craigslist ad, you have no idea if someone had beaten you to the punch.  I immediately texted the person as the ad suggested.  No response.  Mom got antsy and while I refused to call them at 9 on a Sunday night, she called and left a voicemail.  I emailed them while she did that.  The person must have gotten the hint we were interested because a few minutes later I got a text back saying we could come see it the next day.

Of course the price was still more than I wanted to pay.  Bassett had lowered the price where they had gotten it just a year ago and honestly, I could have paid a little more for a brand new one, especially if this used one was damaged in any way.  I had all kinds of tactics on how to talk them down but my mother, the Craigslist expert, said to simply say the price had been lowered and ask what was the least they would take.  Once again, mother knows best because they lowered the price on the spot so much I’m pretty sure I heard those angels singing again and I had to suppress a giggle because finally THE PRICE WAS RIGHT.

 

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Transporting the thing is an entire other post but let’s just say we almost had to go back and pick it up in something other than Scott’s truck.  But we got it safely home and Scott was a champ and put it together right away.  Ya’ll, I could barely contain myself.  I’m not kidding when I say I nearly cried.

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I wanted to feel guilty for all this stuff we’ve bought for our room.  I mean, my heart is still torn by all the needs around me.  Part of me can hardly appreciate it. I’m not beyond tearing it all down and taking it back when I feel it’s the right thing to do.  But I’ll be transparent here and say that God keeps whispering, “Enjoy it, Amy.  Enjoy it.”

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My heart keeps getting pulled back to two things. First, is the Garden of Eden.  God said it was created for enjoyment.  In our own little way, our master bedroom is turning into our own little garden to enjoy.  I’m excited about that room and it is a sanctuary for me and Scott.  Scott and I have been through some rough times but it is such a blessing to lay in that room together and the room just radiates everything beautiful we love.  I can’t explain it except to say in a weird way a four poster bed and a lime green couch is bringing us closer.

 

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The other moment my mind keeps going to is Mary just before Jesus’ death.  Mary poured an expensive perfume on Jesus and his disciple Judas chastised her saying it could be used for the poor (although he was really just being greedy).  Jesus corrected him and said no, you will always have the poor but you will not always have me.  Jesus isn’t sleeping in our four poster bed with us but as I mentioned, our marriage is growing stronger and ya’ll,  I can’t quit thanking Him for giving us a four poster bed.  In the end, He does get the glory and for whatever reason, God has decided to bless us with this room.  This doesn’t mean we’ve stopped helping the poor. If anything, it spurs us on to give even more because we have been so blessed.

 

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So all that to say I love our bed and I think it’s ok.  And speaking of, Lexi HATED the idea of getting this bed. There were tears and pouting.  She just hates change. She was not happy even after she saw it in the room, actually especially after she saw it in the room.  But this morning, she came in the room, hugged one of the posters and said I love it.  I don’t understand that girl but I think we’re all on board that it’s a winner, folks.

Next on the list is to find the right comforter and artwork above the bed and couch.  I feel Photoshop calling my name.

Filed Under: decorating

Weekend Recap

March 5, 2012 by Amy 3 Comments

This weekend was a nice weekend at home.  Friday night we stayed in and the girls decided to do a little sleepover of their own in the living room.  I only mention it because when Scott got up at 4am Saturday to go to work, the girls woke up.  They got up about 5 and tried to watch TV.  I nixed that fast and got them to come lay down with me.  But at 5:45 Lexi declared she was getting up at 6 no matter what.  And then they never went back to sleep.  Saturday was a loonng day.  I think by 10am I had all my chores done. 

We went grocery shopping where I had an epiphany about all this dinner cooking.  I’m going back to the basics.  So I got a chuck roast, chicken breasts, steaks and ground beef for spaghetti that were all on sale.  It’s not going to be revolutionary or Pin-worthy but it’s going to be easy.

Saturday afternoon the girls decided Emma was going to give Lexi art lessons.  They needed more canvases and with that tidbit, I got them to go to Hobby Lobby with me without a fight.  You can see Emma’s latest art from paint lessons on the right and Lexi’s copy-cat.  I was just happy they were working together. 

 

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I think I had a divine appointment at Hobby Lobby because I got these candle sconces I’ve had my eye on for either side of our bedroom TV.  They were 50% off but one of them had some chipping on the edge and they had marked it down already to 50% so I got another 50% off of that.  The chipping was no issue at all because it was on the back and on an angle no one is going to see anyway.  So I got one for 50% off and the other for 75% off.  Amazing.  And look! 

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I LOVE them.  The room is really starting the fill in.

Sunday we had church and the girls spent the afternoon with their cousin after lunch.  I baked up a storm and did some other odds and ends around the house.  It wasn’t an overly exciting weekend but you know when the hot spot on the kitchen counter is entirely clean, it was a good one.

Hope you had a great weekend!

Filed Under: what i did today Tagged With: candle sconce, hobby lobby

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