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Five Minute Friday: Roots

November 2, 2012 by Amy 14 Comments

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Last night at Walmart I spent a boatload of money.  Ugh.  I hate that.  But Lexi’s candy-themed birthday party is this weekend so we grabbed a bunch candy 50% off and then both girls needed new book bags because the ones they’ve been using just haven’t worked out.  And then I went ahead and bought her gifts and all the paper products and the cookie cake I need to serve at her school lunch today.  You know how it goes there. 

While we were at the customer service counter before we picked out all this, trying to return a toy we didn’t use as a gift, I heard it.  That western PA/MD accent that I can pick out of any crowd because every single one of extended family members speaks with it.  I hear it and it transforms me to my roots, all the way from the Carolina blue skies to the Appalachian mountains where I lived just until 3 and where we return as often as we can.

She confirmed she was from Pittsburgh and we laughed an understanding laugh about the accent, how we both can pick it out from a crowd.  We talked about the county where my grandmother lives, closest to Pittsburgh and she knew someone that worked there with my mother’s maiden name.  That never happens here, away from my roots.

As we connected, we were in our own little world.  It wasn’t two strangers over a Walmart customer service counter, it was somehow family, a knowing, a trust because even in a small way our roots were connected.

I often hope it’s the same when I meet the One in whom I am rooted.  A knowing.  A trust.  Family.

 

 

Write for 5 minutes flat – no editing, no over thinking, no backtracking.

Filed Under: Five Minute Friday, friends and/or family

For the Joy of Riding and Writing

November 1, 2012 by Amy 8 Comments

For the last few years we have been trying to teach our Lexi how to ride a bike.  Technically, she could do it.  She’d warble down the street a bit but she had zero interest in continuing.  Interest wasn’t lacking.  She just couldn’t stand that she wasn’t proficient enough to zoom past everyone and stay at the front of the bike line. She is a bit competitive, that one.

So she just decided riding wasn’t for her.  Usually Scott would take Emma out to ride and I’d stay in with Lexi.  Or, when Emma really wanted both me and Scott to go, Lexi would whiz around on her scooter.  In Hilton Head this summer, Emma and her cousin rode their bike to the pool and she walked.

Last month, it was one of those days we were all out.  I was leaving the driveway on my bike and Lexi was standing with her scooter on the road looking further up the road as Scott and Emma had taken off.  I could see her squished face and she might have huffed.  I knew she couldn’t stand that she was being left behind. 

So I said, “Lexi, just go get your bike.”  I always encourage her to practice when we’re out but she always gives me an insistent “No!”  So it shocked me when she began marching down the driveway with some serious intent towards the garage.  Out she came with her bike and I started yelling “Scott!  Scott!”

Well, sure enough, Scott ran with her for a few seconds, let go and she just did it.  When she got off and realized she really could do it, she couldn’t wipe the smile off her face.

 

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For the next few days, all she wanted to do was go ride bikes which was just really weird hearing after years of hearing how much she hated bike riding.

Within two days, we had taught her how to take off on her own, how to stop and how to make a turn so she could keep riding at the end of the road.  And yes, as much as possible she made sure she was at the front of the line. 

I’ve been thinking about Lexi and her bike.

I realized that what kept her from starting was the fear of failure.  She wanted to be first.  We laugh, but how many times do we give up before we even start because we’re afraid to fail?  But, even more interesting, she decided to go for it when she finally realized by not even trying, she was missing out all together.

I realized this weekend at Allume, I have this same issue with blogging.  I admit it’s hard to see people that have been blogging for much less time be much more successful.  It’s not that I don’t celebrate their success–I’m so happy for them. 

But as for me and my blog, part of me just wants to give up and leave it to the folks that clearly know better what they’re doing.  But I remind myself the joy is in the doing, the writing or riding as it were, regardless of what place or rank I’m placed in.  Just as I wanted to shout at Lexi to just get up and ride because it’s FUN, I have to shout at myself, Amy, JUST WRITE. IT’S FUN, remember?!

And it is with that renewed sense of joy I came back from Allume and sit typing.  I want to reject the idea that I need to be first.  Reject that idea that sitting out is better.  I accept that I do it because success is not in numbers. It brings me joy and that’s enough.

What are you holding back from doing for fear of failure?  What do you need to just DO for the joy of it?

Filed Under: Allume 2012, blog stuff, children

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