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1 Corinthians 5

April 30, 2010 by Amy 2 Comments

This is kind of heavy stuff for a Friday afternoon but I just can’t get these verses out of my head.  I shared them with our small group last week and it wasn’t enough to get it off my heart.  I was shuffling through my Bible last week looking for something and ended up on 1 Corinthians 5.  It’s kind of long so I’ll let you link over there to read it.

But basically Paul is writing to the church where there has been some unrepentant and blatant sexual sin in the church and no one is doing anything about it.  In fact, they’re kind of proud of it.  And Paul basically says “What the heck are you doing?  Throw the guy out of the church!  I’ve told you before not to associate with sexually immoral people!”  And I think so many Christians stop reading there.  And that’s how many get their stance where they need to keep sinners out of the church and at arm’s length in general.  They’re bad yeast!  They’re going to ruin us all!

But I love what Paul does next.  He says, “I know I said not to associate with sexually immoral people but I wasn’t talking about people of this world!  In that case, you’d have to leave this world!”  That line cracks me up!  He’s giving a big DUH to the church.  He’s saying of course I don’t mean not to associate with unbelievers/non-Christians who sin.  That’s impossible!  You’d have to fly right out of here to accomplish that.  But he does say, don’t associate with Christians who are living a life of sin!  Oh yes, he says if that person calls himself a Christ follower and they are sexually immoral or greedy, an idolator or slanderer or drunkard or swindler, don’t even EAT with them.  Bottom line, they’re hypocrites. So here it seems Paul is saying it’s better to associate with the non-Christian than the Christian!  In fact, he says of the non-Christians, who am I to judge them?  They’re sinners.  They’re going to sin.  God will judge them.  Not me.  Not you.  If someone doesn’t profess Christ, quit expecting them to act like it.

I don’t know about you, but this makes me start asking a lot of questions, just a few of which are:

What do I do with the Christian friend that isn’t acting like it?  Where does grace end and truth start?  To what level am I responsible for them?

How do I change my views of attendants at church? Or those that don’t attend church?  Or those that shouldn’t?  Man, that’s a tough question.  Paul is so clear but that concept is so foreign to me!

Or more important, in what ways could I be accused of being a hypocrite?

I don’t know if I have answers yet but the verses and questions are burrowing way down deep.

Have opinions?  I’d love to hear them.

Filed Under: spiritual stuff

Bowing My Head

April 21, 2010 by Amy 17 Comments

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Another long one!  Sorry!  I debated even posting this but I figure if I’m open enough to say I’ve got questions, I ought to post any answers I feel like I have.  I’m never saying I’m 100% right, just explaining what I feel like I understand right now.

Nearly two months ago I blogged about some doubts I had about prayer, predestination and free will.  As I said, I prayed about it which is weird I know.  How can you pray about whether prayer works or not?  But I did.  Here were the pieces to the puzzle I knew:

  • We’re told to pray
  • Jesus prayed
  • I’ve seen prayers being answered
  • I believe I have free will
  • I believe God is omniscient meaning he knows the past, present and future

For some reason, though, I could not put the pieces together.  As I blogged before, if he knows the future, how is it free will and if I don’t have free will and everything is set, what’s the point of praying?

[Read more…] about Bowing My Head

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Me Too

April 19, 2010 by Amy 9 Comments

On Thursday at The Uprising I was so moved by the stories of redemption.  I don’t know how but somehow you forget that there are people whose lives are dramatically changed by Jesus.  You forget that some people WANT their lives changed.  And it’s moving when you listen to someone tell their story of redemption.  To hear them say I was there but now I’m here.
Pete Wilson talks in his book Plan B about the importance of authentic community when you’re in Plan B – that part of your life you didn’t plan or expect and usually is unwanted.  But to have authentic community you have to be authentic.  And sometimes that means getting out behind the mask we put in front of ourselves and connecting to someone with the same struggle.  Sometimes you just need to know you’re not alone and for someone to say “Me too.”  To say I’ve been there but now I’m here.  And if Jesus changed me, He can change you.
I want to put myself out there today.  To say “me too” to someone who might be reading this.  Offer some sort of hope if you’re in Plan B in your marriage.  Because I’ve been there and now I’m here.
  • I know what it’s like to feel you’re not good enough
  • To not like who you’re becoming
  • I know what it’s like for every conversation with your spouse to end in an argument
  • To have someone else tell you you’re beautiful
  • To check out emotionally from your spouse
  • To check IN emotionally with someone else
  • To deceive
  • To wonder if you married the right person
  • To wonder what if
  • To feel guilt of your sin
  • To not feel guilt of your sin
  • To not want to change
  • To try to change
  • To not be able to change
  • To obey when the feelings aren’t there
  • To fail
  • To fail again
  • To hope
  • To change
  • I know what it’s like for your husband to change
  • To say goodbye
  • To be forgiven
  • To be desired and chosen by God
  • I know what it’s like to be restored
If you are in the midst of that with your marriage, I don’t think those statements will take much explanation.  And if those resonate with you right now can I just whisper a “Me too” to you?  I’ve been there.  I really have.  But I’m here now.  But only through the power of Christ.  His ways and not my ways.  God can restore you and can restore your marriage.  I’d love to talk to you in the comments or even through email if you’re struggling.  I won’t have all the answers but I might have some.  And to be perfectly honest, I need a “me too” just as much as you.

 

 

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Sunday Highlights: imPOSSIBLE: Letting Go of Your Baggage

April 18, 2010 by Amy 1 Comment

Sometimes after we have moved past the bondage, we are left with the baggage of our past and feel disqualified to do anything for Christ.  We feel like we have to fix ourselves.  However, the Christian life is impossible without Christ.

Satan would love to give you a worthless identity but everyone has hope because of Christ.  We don’t have to be who we were.

1 Timothy 1 – Paul says he is the worst of the worst sinner and if he has hope, everyone does.

4 Possibilities after Bondage:

1  – Partial Release, Partial Embrace

You may be released from bondage but have not fully made amends, returned something or taken full responsibility.  All must be done to be fully released.

2- Full Releas,e No Embrace

If you let go of your bondage but do not fill it with Christ, it will return or be replaced by something else

3- Full Release Partial Embrace

You must fully rely on Christ, not willpower

4- Full Release, Full Embrace

Break through occurs when we fully release our baggage and fully embrace Christ

Questions to consider:

  • What is God saying to me now?
  • What does God want me to do?
  • What part of your heart does he need to have?
  • What could do for Him if your baggage wasn’t an issue?
  • How could your story help someone else?

Filed Under: church, spiritual stuff

The Uprising 2010

April 17, 2010 by Amy 12 Comments

Picture courtesy of Pete’s blog

So this is going to be a  long post.  It was only 9 hours of a conference, but it’s taken a few days to process.  I’m still processing to be honest.  In some ways, this conference was just a continuation of the changes that have been rumbling inside me, specifically surrounding the church. But in others, I was still challenged about my responsibilities as a church member and views of church in general.  They say it was meant for church pastors but I say if every church member could hear it, a true Uprising could start.

How We Got There

To start off with, I wasn’t really supposed to be at this conference.  Many people, even those at the conference, continued to ask what this thing was and why were we going?  A few months ago, Pete Wilson gave away a few set of tickets and I blindly signed up, seeing that he and Perry Noble were speaking.  That was enough to know whatever it was about it couldn’t be too bad.  Come to find out it was geared for pastors and leaders.  But as I expected, we didn’t walk away empty handed.

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Sunday Highlights – imPOSSIBLE– Finding Freedom From Bondage

April 11, 2010 by Amy Leave a Comment

Chris started this morning with an explanation about elephants that have the power to push over trains but can be held in place by a simple stake and chain after a time of conditioning when they are young.  At some point, they quit resisting and accept they can’t go anywhere and quit trying when they are older.   Elephants are capable of freeing themselves but it’s the elephant that does not try to get free.  They are the problem, not the stake.  Some of us are in bondage and we are the issue.

Romans 7:18-25

Some try to use a get out of jail free card by accepting it as “a thorn in your flesh” instead of fighting the sin.

You are not called to make peace with sin but to wage war against it.

Romans 8:1-4

We are free from the penalty of sin

v5

We are also free from the POWER of sin

When we were are in Christ, the chain is broken.   You are FREE, LET IT GO.

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You become hostile to God when you hold on.  You can not please God.  You can get what life is all about and stills miss your role.  You can not make yourself right.  You must give up your pride and rely on Christ.

  1. Learn His word in 15 min/day
  2. Memorize verses that relate to your struggle
  3. Listen to His voice.  When you know it, you know it.
  4. Become accountable
  5. RUN from your sin

This morning’s sermon was very powerful and I know so many were empowered to break free from the bondage of sin.  Praise the Lord!

Listen to the podcast this week.

Filed Under: church, spiritual stuff

Sunday Highlights – imPOSSIBLE– Life After Death

April 5, 2010 by Amy Leave a Comment

I know it doesn’t mean much to have Sunday Highlights on Monday but I was at home for all of 1 hour yesterday and just didn’t get it done.  It was a great service though and I don’t want to skip it so here we go.

Many of us view Jesus as one way to religion, often tacking Him on to our religious beliefs.

Paul was addressing gnostics who tacked on Jesus to their beliefs and says Jesus was “established to be the Son of God by the resurrection”.  The word established comes from herizo, the word we get horizon from.  It’s like the line that separates the sky and land.  Jesus draws a line in time by the resurrection.  He’s on one side and everything else is on the other.  Which side are you on? 

A Risen Jesus Changes Everything

A dead Jesus

  1. Doesn’t have a story to tell.  Nothing significant.
  2. Means Christians are slanderers against whatever God there is.
  3. We are still guilty and everyone will be punished.
  4. v9 says we should be pitied.  He’s not worth living for.
  5. And certainly not worth dying for.

Risen Jesus becomes

  1. A story you want to tell
  2. Gives everything meaning and purpose
  3. Deals with our sin
  4. Offers us hope
  5. Making life worth living
  6. Takes fear out of dying

Question is are we alive?  How has he changed us/ 

If your life or beliefs contradicts Jesus, you have to change.  Stop tacking Him on to your life and let Him change everything.  Get on his side of the herizo.

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Looking Up: A Lesson from a Fan Site

March 31, 2010 by Amy 5 Comments

angrycomputergirlThis week has been tough in fan-site ownership.  Drama abounds.  And not just silly drama.  Drama that made a person involved cry for hours.  And it’s not just one incident, I’ve seen it since Day 1 on my other sites.  People can be nasty, hateful, rude.  It’s sad really when all we’re trying to do is promote something we love and have to deal with the crap we deal with.  But it got me thinking today.  What really is the impetus for their behavior?  Why, on what’s supposed to be a fan site, somewhere people are supposed to get excited about something, do people lash out?  I thought about the situations where people have gotten pretty upset and tried to boil them down to a few reasons why someone might act like that.  It comes out of needs.  Needs that are not new to you or me but I find it fascinating that even on a little fan site, that they come out screaming.

Respect – I would say this is one of the loudest needs I’ve seen.  People want the right to voice their opinion and be respected when it doesn’t agree with others.  People want respected when something they own is shared.  People want to be treated fairly in a disagreement.  They want respect.

Connection – This may be the one that fan sites were created for.  People want to find others that love the same thing and they want to interact because of it. They want to celebrate it together.  They want to share in the highs and lows.  It’s rarely fun to enjoy something and not share it with someone.  And when someone feels like they can’t connect with anyone?  Watch out.

Recognition – Everyone wants recognition.  Credit.  If they created it, found it, said it, shared it, they want their name on it.  And the bigger, brighter, louder, the better.  And sometimes people are just nasty simply to get the recognition.  No other reason they deserve to be recognized,they just want the spotlight and they’ll cause drama just to get it.

Acceptance – Everyone likes to be part of the group and I never see as much lashing out as when someone isn’t accepted into the group.

 

And I think when you step back you see that at the end of the day, these people are looking to others to meet their needs.  And yes, I believe we are created for community, for togetherness but we aren’t created to hurt those same people when they don’t meet our needs.

To those people I would say, it’s ok when you have a different opinion than someone else.  Share something just to bring someone else joy.  Create because it’s beautiful.  Say it because it’s meaningful.  It’s ok to be outside the popular crowd.  Leave feedback for someone else’s benefit, not your own.  Because people are going to fail you.  Your needs are not always going to be met.  So please.  Give people the thing you are desiring…respect, recognition, acceptance, connection…and quit hurting those around you in response.

And ultimately I believe you can best do that through knowing that there is One who will always, always meet our needs.  God always respects us, always will connect with us, always recognizes us, always accepts us.  And when someone doesn’t show us acceptance, we can rest in the fact that always without fail, there is One who does.  When someone isn’t talking back to us the way we’d like, there is someone always without fail waiting to talk to us.  When someone doesn’t give us a pat on the back, He says “I see”.  When someone leaves us out of a group, He opens His arms.  We don’t have to lash out and be hateful.

To these people, I say: Quit looking out and look up.

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