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College friend

June 21, 2007 by Amy Leave a Comment

On a whim I did a google search for a college friend of mine.  We met in the second semester of freshman year in a programming class.  I’m pretty sure he liked me but then realized Scott and I were dating and by first semester Sophmore year, he totally renounced liking me questioning why he ever had.  We had the oddest relationship I have ever had.  No one could understand why we were friends.  He was EXTREMELY smart and we usually were the top 2 of the class.  I think I managed to get better grades on at least a few tests.  Anyway, he was really quiet.  He had a sense of humor but it was very dry and he never opened up to many people.  I think he had a handful of other girls I know that he was friends with, 3 of which I also became friends with.  But we did everything together.  We had all of our computer science classes together, even some physics and such.  We did our honors projects together, staying up was past midnight once to get one done.  We ate lunch together, walked around campus together, etc.  He did other things with other people and M went to school there too so we did stuff but a lot of my memories of college are with D.  We weren’t flirtatious at all really and we didn’t even talk that much but we always were together.  We even drove all the way to Virginia for a programming contest at VT once.  We didn’t talk too much there either.  It was a strange thing.  He actually reminded me of my dad.  You just sort of know he’s there and doesn’t mind your company but doesn’t talk a lot.  I do remember laughing quite a bit though.  He would always whisper something funny about the professor or someone or something going on. And he was always making fun of someone for something and giving you a hard time about something.   We met up a few times after college with the other 3 girls I mentioned but then never really kept in contact.  In fact, if I remember right the last time I saw him was for one of those girls’ wedding.  He attended it with a date and I remember thinking she seemed to be a good fit for him, I’ve always wondered if they got married.

Last night on a whim I thought about him and searched for him and found his master’s thesis.  It mentioned a company he worked for and I remembered him talking about working for them before.  I somehow found an email address to that company on some conference information he had attended and emailed him to see if it was him.  He was always HORRIBLE at returning emails so I didn’t expect one back from him. But I got one tonight.  Nothing major, very D like…I’m still alive, how are you basically.  I gave him the short of my life in the past 7 years and hope to hear how he’s doing.

On a side note, it looked like he forwarded his email to his home account, also on gmail.  Which I think is really funny because D is the one that introduced me to my beloved Google way back in college.  In fact, I also remember him being the first person telling me about mp3s.  He always seem to have his pulse on the newest stuff.  I think it’d be cool to hang out with him again now.  As strange as it was, I do miss D.

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June 21, 2007

June 21, 2007 by Amy Leave a Comment

Fast forward 13 years and I’ve had quite a busy day.  Last night didn’t end until today at 1:30am.  I am slammed at work and with the summer at hand and no preschool and no L this week, I can’t seem to concentrate during the day.  I seem to go in circles, apparently working but not really accomplishing anything.  So I’ve been spending a few evening trying to catch up.  So I was tired this morning.

At lunch I made pancakes and eggs for us and then we got in the pool.  The water had gotten a little cool because of the rain so I spent my time laying on the deck.  And yes, we have a deck.  Or at least a partial one.   The main deck has all the boards, it just needs the railing.  There’s a smaller deck that attaches that he’ll work on next.  He’s off this weekend so I assume he’ll be doing that then.

This afternoon I went and picked up my rings from the jewelers.  They fit perfectly and I’m enjoying them.  Ladies, you remember when you first got your engagement ring and you kept looking at it.  Holding it up on the steering wheel as you drove, taking a peek in a passing mirror, staring at your hands at the keyboard…that’s sort of how I am now.  It feels weird to have a new set after all this time.  This one is much different and just has a different vibe about it.  I know the stone is not real, but I’m mentally preparing myself for my hopefully 10 year anniversary present!  I can’t imagine how much staring I’ll do after that.

Lexi amazingly took a nap this afternoon and I had to wake her up at 6.  I got take out from Olive Garden and took it to Mom and Dad’s new house where they are still working on it before the furniture gets moved in tomorrow. The house is really looking different and really, really good.  Her bonus room is painted brown on the walls and then a green on the ceiling.  It’s the exact colors of my house and I love it.  I wanted to stay in there.

The girls seem to like their house.  Mom calls it the princess house so the girls will be excited about the move.  But Emma started asking questions tonight as to why they had to sell the old house and they couldn’t live there anymore.  I’m sure she misses her other house, she loved going there.

Scott is working again tonight so I’m on my own.  Probably will stay up for a little while and work.  I’m really, really tired though so I doubt it will be long.

Filed Under: children, what i did today

June 21, 1994

June 21, 2007 by Amy Leave a Comment

I’m so close to not posting this but it’s hilarious to me and the only one I can find from June 21.  Now I wish I had written every day!

Tonight Scott came over, as usual.  We were out on the hammock for a long time.  It was so sweet.  Lying on a hammock under the stars with the one you love.  How much better could it get?  I wish we were married!  If I was a betting woman, I’d bet a lot of money he’s good in bed. [cringe, TMI I know] I’m sorry [see I knew even then], that’s just the way I feel!  It’s going to be at least anywhere from 2-4 years until we’re married.  That’s so long to wait, but I guess I have to!  Tomorrow me, M & K are going to MC’s, MJ’s, and K&R’s.  I’m not going to see Scott until after church tomorrow.  It’s his day off too.  Well, there’s not much more to talk about.  Oh, we are leaving a week from Thursday I believe for PA.  Scott is staying for 5 days.  We are going to have so much fun.  Well, I better go!

Love ya,

Amy (soon to be) Bennett

What you need to know now:

That one is painfully embarrassing.  I was 15 at the time and Scott and I had been dating about 6 weeks.  Scott and I had some good laughs over this one the other night.  I was right on the 4 years until we were married and it’s so odd seeing I signed my name as Amy Bennett 4 years before it actually became that.

That trip to PA was the trip Scott got to meet MeMe, my great-grandmother.  She died that September and it was the last time I saw her that week we visited.  I’m so glad he got to meet her and she approved of him although made the comment to my mother that I was too young.  Maybe you do get wiser as you get older…I never regret being with Scott but I do sometimes wish we had met a little later in life.  Sometimes I feel like I never got to date much…I mean real dating.  Even though this was 6 weeks into it, I honestly believed (and still believe) we were meant to be and now it’s 13 years later so what can you say.

Filed Under: Vintage Amy

Beth Moore Study Night 1

June 20, 2007 by Amy Leave a Comment

So I never really advertised the bible study to any youth until yesterday but had some people call around today and also posted it on our site.  We had 6 girls and 2 other leaders show up.  Which really is a good number for a small group study and about what we averaged for the one last fall. 

It was really good for the first one. I think the girls realized how good of a speaker Beth is.  I’m pretty sure they were worried that it was going to be boring staring at a tv for 45 minutes and hear another person talk but she is such a dynamic speaker, it’s hard not to watch and listen to her.  She really is so funny and yet intense at the same time.  Even though I’ve seen that introductory session 3 times now, I still got new stuff out of it.  I just love the concept that living controlled by the Spirit will not just change your life, it will change your day.  It’s in the little things of just getting through the day in love, joy, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness and self-control.  I mean, wouldn’t it be great if we all had a little more of all that stuff.  I’m looking forward to it.  And there were a few girls in there that I think really identified with some of that and will be paying attention to what she says.  I hope they do their homework not just so it’s checked off the list but so they will be studying through the week and really get it.  I see so much potential for all of them and I just hope they grab onto it and run with it.  But even if they don’t do the weekly work, just listening to Beth Moore for 45 minutes every week will make anyone a little better.

Filed Under: bible study

whirlwind day

June 20, 2007 by Amy Leave a Comment

I started the day pretty tired and then headed into the office right at lunchtime for a marathon of meetings all afternoon.  I left as soon as I could from that to head to bible study and then immediately went upstairs to get ready for youth group.  After that, I had to go home and switch the Land Rover for the van and go get the girls.  Lexi fell asleep on the way home and I put her straight to bed.  I also put Emma in her jammies and put her to bed.  So now I’m here, not much to report from the day, just a couple things to note.

One is that Scott decided while I was gone to work to take Lexi’s crib down and left her with just her toddler bed in there.   I saw it in the garage in pieces when I drove up to switch cars tonight and I was like No, he didn’t.  Lexi has been saying she wants to keep her crib and Lexi is very particular about having certain things certain ways so I’ve been worried she wouldn’t sleep in it, read: she would end up sleeping in my bed or not at all.  And Scott is gone to work tonight, so thanks for leaving me with that.  He kind of laughed when he stopped by a little bit ago and said, Uh, yeah, I was halfway done putting it together and realized I would be gone and thought uh oh, I might be in trouble for this.  But, Lexi fell asleep on the way home and I put her down without waking her up.  If she’s woken up since then, it hasn’t bothered her.  The biggest deal actually will be in the morning and she can crawl out of bed instead of waiting until I decide to get her out. Usually I do go get her but if she happens to start sneaking around the house before I wake up, it could be disastrous.

I’ll post the other stuff about the bible study in another post….

Filed Under: children, what i did today

June 19, 1994

June 19, 2007 by Amy Leave a Comment

Father’s Day

Today I went to church and came home and slept from 12:30 till 5:30.  So now it’s 20 till 12 and I’m not that tired.  I made my Dad breakfast this morning.  I made blueberry muffins and cheese grits.  He liked it a lot.  Heather was supposed to help me out, but she got up late.  This evening Scott picked me up at 6:30 and we went to his house and had a cook out.  His whole family was there.  Well, both of his grandparents were there.  About 9:00 or so we went down to Shawn & Kristi’s and watched Hard Target.  It was good.  Then we came back here.  He didn’t stay but 30 minutes because he had to go pick up Phil because he was spending the night and his car is broken down.  These past few days I have been sick.  Well, at night I would get stomache aches.  Today I had diarrhea.  I took some medicine and it helped.  Mom told me today that I had to get a job in August.  I have no idea where though.  I really, really don’t want to work.  Everybody hates working & I don’t want to.  Well, I’m gonna go!

Amy

 What you need to know now:

Lots of TMI in that post, not sure why I felt the need to share that.  Scott and I had been dating about and month and a half at this point.  Not nearly as humorous as other posts in this timeframe.  Can’t wait for those.

I always wondered why I started working through high school.  Some times I regretted working so much through school and college.  I guess it turns out I didn’t really have a choice!

Filed Under: Vintage Amy

this evening

June 18, 2007 by Amy Leave a Comment

This evening ended up being a big rearrangement of the girls rooms.  Dad and Scott brought my old furniture over which required Emma’s room to be flipped around to include the desk I wasn’t expecting.  I think Emma is still unsure of it.  Scott actually found her crying silently after we put her to bed, which she never does, complaining we had left her alone.  I think she’ll be fine tomorrow, just change is hard for her sometimes.  Her room wasn’t “right” according to her.  Lexi has yet to see her room differently which may freak her out.  All of Mom’s moving has her out of sorts.  Last night she pointed at Mom and said, “You’re house is a mess.  You’re biigg trouble.”  LOL

I went to the gym right after work.  I haven’t been since the week before camp when I had gone like 5 times that week.  It felt great.  I burned 350 calories on the elliptical and then did some free weights and ab work.  I really would like to lose 5 lbs and keep that off.  I’ve gained a few (literally like 2) recently which is on top of a few I had gained last year and now I’m about 5 lbs over what I’d like to be.  Sounds like nothing but now my pants are tighter than I’d like and I really don’t want to have to go out and buy new ones.  I really would just like to lose 5 lbs and it sounds easy enough but getting it off and keeping it off are two different things.  I’ve tried to eat less and I can make myself do that without too much issue but then I get really cranky.  And I’ve been working out but supposedly to actually lose weight instead of sustaining, you have to work out 5-6 times a week.  And that’s really hard for me to do.  I have to make a concerted effort to make it a priority every single day to make time for it.  Well, if anyone knows of a way to take off a few pounds easily, let me know.

 Lexi fell asleep around 6:15 and has yet to wake up. I have a feeling she will wake up in just a little bit and be up late or be up way too early in the morning.  Neither of which I’m looking forward to.

I really tried to spend as much time with Emma as I could after we got back from the gym.  I really think she needed some Mommy time.  She kept asking to do everything with me.  So I have a few Emma stories to share.

What comes out of the sink, falls out when there’s no stopper and you stir it in a bowl with tools?  Hopefully you’ve answered water.  That was Emma’s clues for me tonight, one game we like to play.  The next was What looks like a rainbow and is blue, pink, yellow and green?  You wouldn’t know the answer because it’s our hammock in our back yard.  Heather came over and even while we were in the back yard, she was stumped.

So I’ve mentioned Emma likes questions.  Tonight’s interesting question was Why do trees have leaves?  After trying to dodge the question to no avail, I finally give her the answer:  Well, when we breathe in we breathe in something called oxygen.  You can’t see it but it’s there.  And when we breathe out, we breathe out carbon dioxide.  The leaves on the trees give off oxygen even though you don’t see it.  So we need leaves on trees so we can breathe.”  Emma just says, “Oh.”  No more questions after that answer.  It’s amazing, sort of like she gets it and she really wanted to detailed answer.  And I’m not sure that’s exactly why trees have leaves but I guess it was close enough.

So I’m thinking Emma’s getting really close to be ready to read.  Today she says how do you spell Pochontas.  She’s trying to sound it out and I ask her what she thinks it starts with.  She says “P, I already wrote that down”.  And sure enough she had on her paper.  And then she says “Po” and I ask what letter she thinks is next and she says “O!”.  She got tripped up on the “ch” and gave up after that but I’m thinking it’s a good sign that she is understanding that letters make up words and is actually trying to write them down.

And then, I was reading her a book tonight and the first word of a sentence in a paragraph was “As” and she says, “Who is A-say?”  My girl was trying to read! 

So I bought that book teach your child to read in 100 easy steps or something like that and I really think it’s time to go through it.  Wow, what if she’s reading this summer.  She still has a year before she starts school!!

Filed Under: children, what i did today

where did the day go?

June 18, 2007 by Amy Leave a Comment

The girls stayed busy this morning playing and watching tv on and off.  Scott is very busy with the pool deck.  He’s been out there all day.  Emma is begging me to play with her and keeps asking what time it is.  We’re on countdown until 4.

Lexi and I went out at lunch to the jewelry store to get my ring sized but it is closed on Mondays so I guess we’ll have to go back out tomorrow.  We stopped at Subway to have a Mommy-daughter lunch but Lexi didn’t eat a single thing and I packed up halfway through my sandwich and ate the rest at home. 

We got in the pool when I got home.  It felt great.  We got Emma some new goggles that cover her nose and she now will hold her breath, put her head under water and let me pull her around to look at the bottom of the pool.  She has made so much progress even in the 4-5 times we’ve been in the pool just this year.  Lexi is still a ham jumping from the steps and today she was leaned back and kicking a bunch.  I tried to show her how to do the backstroke and she was trying to move her arms but it’s hard with all the swimmies on her arms.

I’m planning to go to the gym this afternoon.  Scott is supposed to help D get their dog over to Scott’s grandmother’s house, where they’re moving in this weekend and D is helping Scott move my old bedroom furniture over here.  We’re putting that in Emma’s room and putting Emma’s dresser in Lexi’s room to replace her dresser/changing table that’s in there now.

In looking back at my old journals, I’ve realized I could care less that I went to the mall on Setp 13, 1991.  What I really have enjoyed reading is how I felt, what struggles I had, who my friends were, things I wanted, what dreams I had.  And I have a tendency to document more of what I did today kind of mentality than anything else so I’m planning to come up with something that will help me document that even if it’s just once in awhile. 

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