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Puppies, Bikes and Cupcakes

March 23, 2012 by Amy 9 Comments

How about a few random things?

1 – Our puppy Tucker has made it to 1 year and 1 day.  Possibilities were sketchy at times.  Sadly, many, many, many things were destroyed in the process.  A blue tooth, Nine West shoes, more markers, pencils and pens than I can count, a pool skimmer, grill brush, pool lights…oh I could go on.  Scott tells me it’s worth it.  Possibilities are sketchy.

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2 – Both Emma and Lexi are now riding their bikes.  We did not totally fail as parents.  We actually went on a family bike ride the other night and it was a pretty darn good feeling.

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3 –This has no story except to say Emma was the one taking the picture.  I found this in my camera and this is why I’m scared of her being a teenager and thought you should be warned of my impending meltdown.  Those eyes cut through any fuzziness of the picture.  They are LOUD and CLEAR.

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4 – I also need to confess I made cupcakes although I know how bad all the sugar is.  They’re from the King Arthur Gluten-free cake mix with my mom’s icing recipe.  They were divine.  If you couldn’t tell by Lexi’s face. 

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5 – On a serious random note, please pray for my family.  My grandfather is very sick in ICU with pancreatitis.  My father-in-law has diverticulitis and is having surgery today and will be in the hospital for the next week.  Praying for peace for the family, healing for them and wisdom for the doctors. Thank you.

 

And if you’re feeling chatty, tell me the worst thing a puppy ever destroyed at your house.

Filed Under: children, Recipes

Remembering Third Year Elementary

March 19, 2012 by Amy 6 Comments

Nine years.  Third grade.  She’s starting to talk of boys. Playground chases.  Walk-by comments.  Confirmation of cuteness.  It’s all a little too much for this mama.  It’s full of cliché, but wasn’t it yesterday I was gifted the tinker bell perfume in third year elementary?

But then there are still moments.

Joy in the birth of Spring.

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The hand requested from a little sister.

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The push needed from the same.IMG_7538 

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The dare accepted.

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Heaven looks on

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and we all forget the growing and the changing.  They’re just my babies playing and I’m just the mama picturing.  I can’t stop the changing but the changing brings remembering.  And this will be a sweet one.

Filed Under: children

How We’re Coping with Gluten-Free – Week 3

March 9, 2012 by Amy 9 Comments

We’re going on 3 weeks of our diet changes.  One thing I want to be clear is Lexi is not particpating fully in either of these.  While she eats some of the gluten-free products and I make all of our dinners GF and milk free, she still eats the regular bread, cereal, ice cream, etc.  And while Emma is milk-free, Scott and I are not.  So we drink regular milk, have GF products that have milk in them, etc.  So basically we’re managing 3 different diet needs.

But even that said, this week was SO MUCH better than last.  So much.  While I’m not 100% happy with what we ate (wish we could have had less red meat, less grains and more veggies), we ate and there was very little complaining.  I was tallying it up last night and I realized I had cooked every meal for ten days straight other than Sunday dinner at Scott’s parents’.  That’s a lot of meals in a row for me.  I’m sure it’s some sort of record.  And I have to say, this week I kind of liked it.  While our grocery bill has obviously gone up, our eating out category has drastically dropped and it feels good to know that while the meals aren’t perfect, it’s a lot better than fast food.  And ya’ll?  I like the meal planning.  It’s worked out great for us to either shop on Saturday or Sunday and buy for the whole week.

I thought I’d share some recipes and products that have absolutely saved us these past 3 weeks, broken down my meals.

Breakfast

  • Van’s blueberry waffles.  Emma eats these every morning with syrup.  OJ for a drink.
  • Granola bars.  I sub with Bob’s Mill gluten free oats and Bob’s Mill gluten-free all purpose flour (and 1.5 tsp of xanthum gum so it will hold together) and I have a bar every morning for breakfast with some OJ.  Emma would eat these but she can’t have the butter in them.
  • I bought Bob’s Mill Pancake mix but haven’t tried it.
  • Crystal swears by these waffles.
  • We also do bacon, eggs or a smoothie as alternates.

Snacks

  • Lots of fruits for the girls when they’re at home.  Their favorites are bananas, apples, grapes and kiwi.
  • Zucchini bread
  • Banana bread
  • Smoothies with Silk Vanilla Almond Milk

I always have at least one of those breads made.  I alternate between the two and Emma eats that for snack after school.  I’m pretty sure she would eat the entire loaf if I let her.  I wish it didn’t have so much sugar in it but I’m just going with it for now.

Lunch

  • Rudi’s or Udi’s Gluten-free bread.  It’s not the best thing ever but Emma has been a trooper and eats her PB&J’s at school.
  • Vegan mayo.  I use this to make Emma some tuna salad for her.  Sometimes I put it on bread for lunch and sometimes she just eats it as a snack after school.
  • Glutino’s pretzels.  Both the girls love these.
  • Pre-packaged fruit.  I don’t know what it is but they hate eating fresh fruit at school.  Is it not cool?  I don’t know.  But the packaged fruit is the next best thing.
  • Applesauce packs

Dinner – main course

  • Steaks
  • Salsa chicken in the crock-pot.  Just put a few chicken breasts and a jar of salsa in.  Shred it towards the end.  You can either make tacos out of it, put it over rice or just eat it separate.
  • Spaghetti with alternate noodles.  We tried rice noodles last time and trying quiona noodles tonight.
  • Manwich.  We tried Rudi’s hamburger buns and they were horrible.  They soaked in all the juice and made it very dry.  We all ended up opening up the sandwich and eating the meat plain which was just fine.
  • Sweet potato chili.  This was delicious.  Scott’s parents and my sister all tried it and liked it.  Lexi wasn’t a fan and I think she hate some sort of leftover that night.
  • Amy’s gluten-free, dairy-free spinach pizza.  Emma will eat the spinach pizza but I buy Lexi and Amy’s small cheese pizza and just bake them together.
  • BBQ.  Put a boston butt in your crockpot all day with a little water, salt and pepper. Shred after you get it out.
  • Pot Roast.  I don’t like potatoes and carrots in mine so I just put a chuck roast in with one package of onion soup mix and 1/4 cup of water.  I even made the gravy with corn starch.

Dinner – sides

  • Baked potatoes.  Earth fare has non-dairy cheese and sour cream Emma uses while the rest of us use  regular.
  • Refried beans.  Emma didn’t like these but Scott and I loved them with the salsa chicken.
  • Any kind of Alexia potato fries. We’ve done both yukon gold and sweet potato.
  • Spinach.  Turns out we like spinach.  Lexi of course hated it but Emma asked for me to make it the next night.
  • Cauliflower mashed potatoes.  I made this with the roast and put the roast gravy on them.  No one knew it was cauliflower instead of potatoes.  Amazing.  It felt so good to get up from that meal and not feel too full.
  • I also use canned or frozen corn, green beans, carrots or peas as a side.

Desserts

  • Chocolate Cookies
  • Earth fare Gluten-free chocolate chip cookies
  • Dairy Free ice cream.  You can get this in any store.  Just look for a yellow wrapping at the top.
  • Oatmeal raisin cookies.  These didn’t bake well for me but it still tasted good.
  • Peanut butter cookies

Miscellaneous

  • Smart butter is what I use for Emma on popcorn, potatoes, bread.  I actually really like it and use it too.
  • Dino’s BBQ sauce. I got this recommendation from Katie and it’s really fabulous if you like it both sweet and a little kick.  It was too hot for Emma and Lexi hated it but Scott and I loved it.
  • Agave nectar for sweetner in smoothies and coffee

So that’s what the last 10 days or so have looked like.

In really good news, Scott has seen no acid reflux at all.  Before, he would only see a few good days in a row before he’d need to take some medicine.  He did have one incident this week when he ate gluten by mistake and threw it all up that night.  The doctor said it was a normal reaction when you are cleansing yourself from gluten.  He also said it could be related to the bad fats they used to make it.  I think that speaks a lot to how his body must be changing because of the diet changes.

Emma has only had one stomach ache in the past week and it was one morning she woke up and I can’t say it wasn’t just because she was hungry.  She was fine as soon as she ate.  She also has been MUCH more regular.

As for me, I’ve lost another pound or two, I rarely get bloated and my skin is looking so much better.  Someone at work just saw me for the first time in a few weeks and immediately commented on my weight and skin.  That was a great confirmation for me.  I’m just enjoying having no cravings.  For at least a week now, I haven’t had ANY food after dinner.  We eat between 5 and 6 and sometimes don’t go to sleep until 10 or 11.  I think that’s huge.

Truth be told, I’m not sure we’ll go back to gluten.  This week really proved to me we could happily be gluten-free and I’m not impatiently counting down until our check-up at the end of the month.  Feels great!

Filed Under: children, friends and/or family, Recipes

How We’re Coping Going Gluten and Dairy Free

February 21, 2012 by Amy 12 Comments

I know we’re only 3 days into this gluten/milk free thing.  Perhaps I should rewrite this post in 3 or 4 weeks but I have to be honest and say so far it just hasn’t been that big of a deal.  Let me show you through Emma’s meals yesterday since she has the most restricted diet of the four of us:

Breakfast: Emma ate bacon, two gluten free (GF) waffles, and chocolate almond milk.  On a day off school like yesterday, I normally make her pancakes, bacon and make chocolate milk.  It was super easy (albeit more expensive) to substitute with a waffle. I also bought GF pancake mix I could have used but it’s easier to pop a waffle in a toaster. 

Morning snack: Apple.  No different than any other day.  So thankful for a teacher at school that really pushes healthy snacks. 

Lunch:  I fixed her a PB&J on GF bread and she ate strawberries, grapes and carrots.  Again, just the bread substitution.

Afternoon snack: She had a GF cookie at one point and then I fixed deviled eggs with non dairy mayonnaise.  I don’t normally have cookies in the house so the cookie was an extra treat.  Normally, she would have probably eaten a piece of her Valentine’s Day candy but we all love the GF cookies from Earth Fare so she didn’t even miss it.  As for the deviled eggs, she couldn’t even tell I used a different mayonnaise. 

Dinner: I made spaghetti with rice noodles.  She ate them like a champ.  She did balk a little at not being able to use Parmesan Cheese but it wasn’t a deal breaker. 

Evening snack: I think she might have eaten one more GF cookie.

So yes, lots of substutions but nothing overwhelming or yucky or any drama.  Her tummy hurt a few times but that isn’t to say her body wasn’t reacting to the change to the new GF flours.  GF bread, waffles, noodles, cookies and almond milk certainly aren’t the cheapest things ever.  BUT.  It’s not hard.  Just different.  And I found a great deal site for gluten free products that I definitely plan on visiting regularly.

And, finally, drumroll….we can definitely tell a difference in her uh, movements, since just Sunday.  Yayyyy!!   Can you believe within 48 hours we’re seeing a change?

Filed Under: children, health

The Magic Machine

February 10, 2012 by Amy 11 Comments

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I have to tell you about this thing I’ve dubbed The Magic Machine.

Two days ago my friend Dani and I were talking on the phone.  Yes, the phone!  She briefly mentioned that her girls were now waking up on their own to the alarm and getting dressed all on their own.  Well, as you can imagine, we raced right over to the WalMarts Wednesday night and bought, not 1, but 2 alarms. The alarms were cute little $5 alarms that resembled a cell phone so of course each of the girls wanted their own.  Fair enough.  Scott and I have our own alarms.

So Wednesday night they were really into setting the time just right and wanted to get up 15 minutes earlier than I normally wake them, even on an early day.  I was pretty skeptical.  Are they really going to get up?  And even if they do aren’t they just going to race to the computer and play?

Thursday morning rolled around and my alarm is set to 15 minutes before theirs.  I half-sleep after I hit the snooze button and wait and listen for their alarm to go off.  Seven minutes after theirs was set to go off, I walk in their room and Lexi pops up and says, “I’M UP!”  Emma rolls over and says I was too tired to get up.  We were still 7 minutes out from when I normally would wake them up so I just went back to bed.  As I got back in bed, I saw their bedroom light turn on and then heard the chatter start.  Then I heard their drawers.  They were going to get dressed!  So I just laid there listening to see what they would do.  Out to the kitchen they went.  I thought they might get themselves something to eat.  I gave them a few more minutes but it was time to get serious about getting ready.  I went out and they had packed their lunch.  Their lunch!  They also informed me they had not only gotten dressed but brushed their teeth and their hair.  They even had shoes on!  They pushed me back to bed.  Like literally pushed me out of the kitchen telling me they wanted to do it by themselves.  I disappeared for a few more minutes, came back out to start the car and then just had to give their hair some touch up and help them find their coats.

I was so excited about this yesterday I was going to tell you but then I thought, no, that’s just a fluke and when tomorrow rolls around and they don’t do this then it’s just silly I blogged about it.

But then they did it again today.  All of it.  Got dressed, got breakfast (a banana and grapes!), brushed each other’s hair, and packed their lunch.

The Magic Machine, indeed.

Filed Under: children

Adoption Update and On Parenting a Son

February 9, 2012 by Amy 22 Comments

The title is a little misleading because I don’t have much of an update.  What should have taken 2 weeks tops has taken nearly 3 months.  Our home study was completed in mid-November and we had hoped that by the end of December (2011) it would have been written up, sent it for revisions and then approved by the State.  As of now, the home study hasn’t even been written.  The latest I heard is it might get written and turned in this week but I haven’t heard confirmation.

Now, one part of me wants to rage against the machine.  I mean, that’s just a really long time when it shouldn’t be a really long time.  But the other part of me knows it is divine intervention and this is going just how it ought. 

I think about the adoption often but if I think too much, I get really nervous.   As in, terrified.  What if he hurts my girls?  What if we can’t control him? How will I handle 3 kids?  Will we be able to bond? The list goes on.  So I try not to think too deeply.  Honestly, I just turn my attention to the fact that God has led us to it and then a peace comes over me.  Simple as that.  He’s got it.

Today was one of those days though that I started down that rabbit hole. 

On Pinterest, I ran into this list of Mommy/Daughter rules.  As I read through the list, I knew I could have written it.  Painting nails, putting on makeup, dressing in my clothes, dancing.  We’ve got this down.  I know how to parent a girl.  Well, in general.  We’re actually going through a rough season so I don’t have this down.  But I understand females in the way I know how to paint toenails and put on lip gloss. 

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But then I read this list of rules about parenting sons.  And ya’ll.  I’m clueless.  Some of them made sense, of course.  There’s not much more I love than watching a mom teach their son how to hold the door open for someone.  But many others I had this quizzical look on my face. 

Teach him words for how he feels?  Do you know how many different words my girls have for how they feel?  Lots! 

Be a cheerleader for his life?  My girls ARE cheerleaders.

Learn how to throw a football?  We are in trouble, people.

The thing I know though is this: I didn’t read a manual on how to be a mother of girls.  I know I’ll learn.  And don’t get me wrong, I can’t wait to have a son.  A son!  But I’m not going to lie. I feel like Jasmine on her carpet flying into a whole. new. world.

Filed Under: adoption, children Tagged With: adoption, daughters, parenting, sons

Emma The Painter

February 3, 2012 by Amy 7 Comments

Over the years, Emma has tried a few activities.  We stuck with gymnastics for about a year until we took a break during the summer and never went back.  Neither of them disliked it but neither of them were bent on going back so we didn’t.

Then came guitar lessons.  She was sure she wanted to play guitar like Taylor Swift.  And I really think she still wants to.  However, she realized it takes a whole lot of practice and dedication.  She quit lessons a few months in and then went back a few months later for another few weeks all to find out she still didn’t find enough interest in it to really practice like it required.

Well, for months as Lexi has continued with Taekwondo, Emma hasn’t been doing anything.  I’ve agreed to let her do nearly anything she wanted.  She just wasn’t interested.  In fact, one time the only thing she could come up with was giving ME painting lessons.  Finally, a place called the Painted Parrot opened in town.  On their site it seemed like they were more geared towards parties.  It’s actually pretty cool.  You get a group of people, show up and you all paint the same picture.  She supplies everything.  But I wasn’t sure if she did private lessons.  It was never opened when we went by but after a few weeks I finally made the call.  Sure enough, she does individual or small group lessons.  She supplies everything, the kids pick out what they want to paint and she helps them with their technique.

Emma went yesterday for her first lesson.  I actually had to talk her into going because her friend at school started gymnastics yesterday and she was sure she wanted to go with her.  I insisted she go to the lesson we had agreed to and then she could decide. 

When I went to pick her up, Emma was busy helping clean up.  She seemed assertive yet comfortable, responding to questions with confidence and clearly in a happy disposition. 

Walking out, she declared she was definitely going back and said, “You know how sometimes when I go new places I’m shy and don’t talk much?  Well, it wasn’t the same today.  I answered her questions and talked a lot. It was so much fun.”  I said, “So you’re comfortable there?” She said, “Yes!”  And there was something about her that seemed very mature.  There was no shy little girl walking out of that studio.  She talked the whole way home about how she had painted and the ways she had shaded the tree and what stars she had picked and on and on.

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She was already picking out her painting for the next week over dinner, really mulling over what she wanted it to look like.  She had picked a palmetto tree this week since it’s our state tree but thinks she wants to do some mountains next week.  I was a little concerned Lexi was going to be upset she didn’t get a picture but she was super supportive of her, telling her what a great job she had done.

I’m not sure where this will go, but for now I think Emma’s place is in front of an easel, paintbrush in hand.

Filed Under: children

A Mirror, Rug and a Debunking

January 26, 2012 by Amy 5 Comments

OK, so I’ve had a few small changes around the house.  Nothing outstanding but they make me happy and I’m all about sharing the happy.

The mirror

First up, my mom found this mirror from Celebrating Home. 

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The mirror is a perfect fit with our new curtains and I love that it brings some green into the room.  The plan is to find a dresser of some sort to go under it but clearly this decorating the bedroom thing is going to be a drawn-out process.

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The Rug

I peeked in HomeGoods the other day after I hit up Old Navy and no lie, I saw this rug for my bathroom and was taking off to the check-out counter in no less than 25 seconds.  If you know me and my indecisive nature, you know that’s a flat out miracle.

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The Debunking

And finally, the other weekend Scott and I were bored and I said, “I feel like rearranging some furniture.” Well, that started 24 hours of drama with the girls’ room.  Lexi wanted to keep it and Emma wanted them separate.  I actually like the look of the bunk beds but they were serving absolutely no purpose.  Neither girl wanted to sleep on top and it was clearly being used as storage.

 

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After a trial night, both girls decided they really like having separate beds.  Can you believe they happily spent 9 months sharing a twin bed?

Filed Under: children, decorating

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