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Maternity Shirt Shopping

September 12, 2012 by Amy 9 Comments

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Pictured above is me and my sister at my mom’s house Monday night for her birthday.  We went out to eat and then had cupcakes at her house.  The weather just turned cooler this week so I was glad to finally slip on my beloved jeans.  Apparently my sister was too.  Although we’re known for wearing matching outfits on accident.  That’s a whole other post!  But there’s a secret about the tops we’re wearing.

We’re both wearing maternity shirts.

Yep.  My sister started wearing a maternity shirt after my pregnancies a few years ago.  Then recently, she bought this blue striped tee.  She said it’s comfy and she thinks the cut is flattering.  I agree.

I thought I never wanted to see another maternity shirt again after my pregnancies.  But.  My girls are obsessed with anything to do with pregnancies and babies right now.  We have a local maternity shop call The Bump in town and they just beg me to even go look inside.  Last week we went in and I was bemoaning how cute maternity clothes had become compared to 8-10 years ago when I was pregnant. 

I was pushing through the Clearance rack and saw this green and white striped top.  The girls know I love stripes and just begged me to put it on.  To appease them, I did.  I got it on and was shocked.  I loved the length.  I loved the folds in the front. They weren’t slouching too much as you might expect of maternity and the cut was actually flattering.  The stretchy fabric was extremely soft and well, stretchy.

The salesperson said many maternity pieces are being made now to perform double-duty and this one in particular was meant to have a tighter fit.  I remembered Heather wearing maternity before, and well, I was sold.  Well, it was sold. 

My girls were beyond thrilled. We’re still working on not telling everyone we see that I’m wearing a maternity shirt when I have it on.

Now, I’m not saying I’m buying strictly maternity but I’m just sayin’ you might want to give that clearance rack a little whirl.  For those of you that have been recently pregnant and aren’t entirely sick of your maternity wardrobe, dig up those bags of Goodwill clothes and see what you can reuse.  Worked for me!

This post is linked to What I Wore Wednesday and Works for me Wednesday

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Mercy House Kenya Shop GRAND REOPENING

August 27, 2012 by Amy Leave a Comment

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I’m super excited to take this space today to first, introduce you to Mercy House Kenya if you don’t know about it and second, tell you about their store that is reopening today.

Mercy House Kenya exists to provide alternative options for pregnant girls living in the streets of Kenya.  The Mercy House aids them in nutrition, housing, prenatal care, Bible study, counseling and job skills for sustainable living, they even teach them about the cleaning company like MIB to help them out in their house cleaning. 

Here’s a video you can watch to hear the history and heart behind Mercy House. The short of it is Kristen Welch went on a Compassion blogger trip and then felt led to do something. 

And here enters The Mercy House Shop. 

The shop helps fund the house and has been shut down the past few months so they could restock and now it is REOPEN. 

I own two items from their shop and I’ve been more than pleased with both of them.  If we are friends on Facebook, you may have spied their T-shirt in the girls’ back to school picture. So comfy and love the fit!

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They have lots more items available, all made in Kenya.

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I love, love, love the idea of getting to shop and having it benefit someone for good.  I wish ALL shopping was like this! 

The best part is I have a 20% coupon code to share with you: REGRAND.

Now go, shop and ENJOY {and have fun with the blog’s new sharing features and SHARE the news!}

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On Dressing Up at Church

March 16, 2012 by Amy 22 Comments

These posts from Marla have weighed heavy on my mind since she posted because it’s something I’ve struggled with during recent years.

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I’d highly recommend you reading them for yourself but she basically makes the case for dressing how YOU feel appropriate for church.  For her, that’s jeans.  For many of you reading, that’s your very best dress, skirt, heels.  For some of you, it’s jeans but you wear skirts because that’s just what your church does.  For me, I wear jeans (and some casual dresses) because I’m comfortable AND that’s what most of my church wears.

But I haven’t always been casual at church.  In fact, it’s only the past 3 years attending our new church did I even fathom wearing jeans on a Sunday morning.  I grew up in a Church of God church.  Church of God historically is very strict.  Very.  Women just did not wear pants.  I was in my very best dress every single Sunday.  I can remember my mom making me change when I wore anything not dressy enough, even as a 15 and 16 year old I had a dress, pantyhose and dress shoes on.  But so did everyone else.  It’s just the way church was. 

Then I got engaged and started attending church at Scott’s Southern Baptist church where we stayed for over 10 years.  Same thing.  Everyone dressed up.  It’s just the way church was.  And for the first time, I saw some some ugly things regarding dress.  And I don’t mean ugly dresses.  I mean ugly attitudes toward dress.  Now, before I say this, hear me when I say I’m not putting that church down.  That church is like family.  I’m serious.  In fact, many of them are literally family members.  But I did see some ugly things in regards to dress.  I know of people that were highly judged because they did not have a tie on when they were on stage.  People were looked down on when they wore shorts on a Sunday night.  You were definitely singled out if you weren’t in a dress or skirt Sunday morning.  No one would ever say anything to you directly, but the judgment was still there.  NOT by everyone.  Many could care less what you wore.  But some people did.  A lot. And some people didn’t really care much but dressy was just the acceptable standard.

Our current church accepts any sort of dress.  There are some folks who still wear dresses but not often.  Most people are in jeans or a casual skirt.  All the men wear jeans, even the lead pastor.  Only a few men have jackets.  Kids are mostly in casual wear.  Some girls have casual dresses, but not Sunday dresses.  My girls wear jeans most Sundays unless it’s a holiday and then we’ll dress up.  Scott hasn’t worn a suit, dress pants or dress shoes since we’ve started there.

And FOR ME, I feel so much more free.  Before I was SO CONCERNED with what I was wearing.  Clothes were almost 90% of what I was thinking of on Sunday mornings, more than any other day of the week.  I had to have the just right outfit, the just-right shoes. I had to make sure my makeup and hair were just right.  And then I’d spend all morning pulling at my skirt, tugging at my pantyhose, comparing myself to everyone else dressed up.  Church was like the Super Bowl for fashion every week.  On the other hand, I didn’t care what anyone else wore.  I honestly could have cared less if someone walked in with shorts.  The concern was all inward and how I looked and stacked up.  Was I any better than the folks looking down on people for not wearing a tie?  I doubt it.

Now?  I get dressed like I would every other morning.  Sure, I care about what I look like.  I make sure I’m modest and respectful and am not dressed like a slob but I’m not thinking about what everyone else thinks.  Because no one is dressed up and no one cares. My feet don’t hurt when I’m standing to worship. I’m not worried about tugging a skirt or shirt. And best of all, I don’t spend time seeing how I stack up to everyone else. I still worship the same.  I still concentrate the same.  In fact, at times, I’m less distracted by looking at everyone.  Furthermore, the one time I remember being distracted is by someone wearing a dress.

Hear me, I’m NOT bashing folks that dress up.   I dressed up for 30 years of my life and ALL of the rest of my family and many close friends dress up Sunday morning.  But what I am saying is now that I don’t, I’ve realized that dressing up on Sunday brought some ugly things out of me at times and I think it does for a lot of other people too (but not everyone!).

And here’s my most important observation: I think it can create a false sense of I-have-everything-together and enforces people acting and dressing one way on Sunday and then another during the week.  You are polite and nice and worship in your nice clothes but then you walk out of the door, not only do your clothes change but also your attitude and actions do too.  

I’m not looking down on anyone for dressing up or dressing down.  You have to do what you feel comfortable with.  But what I would ask is, are you TOO preoccupied with what you’re wearing on Sunday morning and furthermore what OTHER people are wearing on Sunday morning (comparing or judging)?  I can honestly say I was and I’m not sure I even saw how much I was until I wasn’t.   Sunday mornings have very little thought to what I wear and NO thought to what anyone else is going wear OR what they’re going to think about what I wear.  I’m wholly concentrated on worship and the sermon and reconnecting with like-minded believers.  And I think that’s just how it ought to be.

Filed Under: church, Fashion, spiritual stuff

What I Wore Wednesday: How to Wear Royal Blue Shoes

February 22, 2012 by Amy 6 Comments

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I’m pretty sure this is the first What I Wore Wednesday.  If you’re not familiar, folks take pictures of their outfits through the week and post them on Wednesdays.  I’m usually not inspiring, too forgetful or self-conscious to participate but I recently got these royal blue suede shoes (Elvis!) at the behest of the Mother of Fashion herself.  I mentioned them briefly in this post. 

But royal blue is a great Spring 2012 color and she insisted the blue shoes were “basically a neutral”.  Ha!  Well, as it turns out she was right and I’ve been able to wear them with many different outfits.  In fact, I’m having to convince myself not to wear them every single day since they’re so comfortable.  I thought I’d share a few outfits I’ve worn in the past week as well as a few bonus ones just in case you want a few tips.  Here are eight ways to wear royal blue shoes:

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Apologies for the busy background and cell phone snapshots.  Another good reason I don’t do WIWW often.  In any case:

  1. Yellow striped shirt, black blazer and royal/navy blue necklace.  This is my favorite out of all of them.
  2. Kelly green long sleeve tee and a navy and white scarf.  I could live in long-sleeved tees but this is a fun way to make them interesting!
  3. Orange tank, royal blue cardigan and royal/navy blue necklace.  Cardigans don’t have to be matronly!
  4. Royal blue stripes and orange tank.  And in other words, what I’m wearing today.
  5. Navy striped shirt.  Mother of Fashion tells me navy and royal blue are popular together this year. I think I wish I had a little yellow jacket for this outfit. 
  6. Orange tank and grey crop sweater.  This is my ultimate work from home cozy outfit.
  7. Black and royal blue dress.  Wears like a shirt and skirt.  I usually wear black shoes with this but the blue is fun!
  8. Yellow striped shirt.  Again, you could do a third color in a jacket or scarf here or even a cute belt if you can pull it off.

You’ll notice in only a few of them am I actually wearing royal blue in the outfit and when I am, it’s with another color.  I actually prefer the shoes not to match exactly.  In fact, I think Mother of Fashion would probably suggest that’s the only way to wear them. 

I hope this inspired you a little.  If so, don’t forget to pin it! If not, let’s just forget this post exist, k? Hope you’re having a great Wednesday either way!

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Marriage, Fashion and Healing

February 13, 2012 by Amy 4 Comments

I couldn’t call this simply a weekend recap.  So much stuff this weekend!  If my last few weekends have been quiet and around-the-house type weekends, the last 3 days have been quite the opposite.  Each day we had something pretty big and I can’t wait to tell you!  Hang on, because this is a long one!!

 

MarriedLife Live

 

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Friday night Scott and I attended the MarriedLife Live event at our church.  It was less conference and more a night out for married couples in the church.  We had a live band, dessert and coffee and we did hear from our family pastor.  He talked about seasons of marriage and how some bad seasons tear couples apart and others are drawn together.  To avoid the former, we should store up in the good times, just as Joseph did in Egypt, knowing a famine was coming.  I felt like this was especially appropriate for us as the last year or two has generally been a good season for our marriage but I know the adoption will test us.  Right now is the time to build up our marriage, not only when we’re trying to salvage it.

We also did an exercise where each of us had to fill out what we wanted each other to do and say at four times during the day: morning, saying goodbye for the day, saying hello and going to bed.  I have to say it was eye-opening.  We rarely do anything like that and really appreciated knowing what Scott expects and desires.

 

Be Red Hot

 

Saturday morning I attended the Be Red Hot Women’s conference at Dani’s church to support her as she led a break-out session.  I was completely blessed by the main speaker Branda Polk.  The conference was a diving board off the verse about not being lukewarm but either hot or cold.  We want to be red hot in our faith.

One thing she hit on that I hope she doesn’t mind that I share is the thought that the Bible says we ought to do all things unto God. But how do my menial tasks mean anything to Him?  Isn’t it only big people doing big things for God that He treasures?  She likened it to our children picking dandelions and giving it to us as a gift of love.  Practically, they are giving us a weed but because it is done unto us in love, it is a treasure.  Isn’t that an awesome thought?

Dani rocked her fashion session.  She started out speaking to the heart of the matter.  Does God even want us to spend time on how we look?  Yes!  He cares about all things and the way we present ourselves on the outside can say something about what He’s done on the inside.  It also says something about how we feel about the people around us.  I know Scott always notices when I dress up more for work than I do him.  That’s sending a message, true or not, that I care more for what they think than what he thinks.  However, if our vanity and pride are keeping us occupied and unable to give like He requires, it’s a problem!

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She also went over the top trends for the year, how she builds her closet and took time to dress up a few folks with accessories she had bought.   I even got to help on stage for a hot second to share her Sneaky Jacket Trick.  She did a fabulous job and I think everyone was ready for a full day conference just with Dani.  I know if there is anything I know about styling, it is all from her instruction over the past 14 years we’ve been friends.  Those blue shoes I have on in that pic are results of an email from Dani…"buy these and this is what you wear with it” (that yellow shirt is my one of my Old Navy shirts)!

 

Testimony

 

Fast forward through Saturday family time, Sunday church, dinner and nap and we headed to my parents’ and sister’s church to hear my sister give her testimony.  One day I want to take the time and give you all the intricate details about what happened but the gist of it is this. 

Heather has had a sleeping disorder her whole life.  Without medication, she always wanted to sleep.  Like, she would go to bed at 7 on a Friday night, get up at 1 the next afternoon and then could take a nap at 4.  She finally was diagnosed at 20 and got some pills ($600 a month!) that would keep her awake all day.  However, my mom would have to call her every single morning over and over and OVER to get her to answer the phone long enough for her to take the pills so she would wake up an hour or two later.  It was exhausting and frustrating. 

During the past few years, she had also started playing World of Warcraft video game and found herself addicted.  Addicted to a video game?  Yep!  I remember having the girls’ family birthday here at the house the year before last and she came in with her laptop, hooked it up and was playing through the birthday party.  She was playing every chance she got. 

Well, her church did a 40 day fast last January and God called her to fast her video game.  She did and as she described it, went through physical withdrawals.  Towards the end of the 40 days, God was calling me to do the Daniel Fast (I mention Heather’s healing vaguely in the post).  I had two different dreams about her just days before I started and I knew that I was to fast and pray for Heather.  Heather had given me her laptop so she wouldn’t play it and I prayed over her laptop during the fast.  Yes, I laid hands on a laptop!  I can’t tell you the power I felt when I touched it.  My heart broke and my spirit was completely burdened. 

Three days before the end of her 40 days and Heather woke up on her own at 5:30am.  The next day she woke up again.  The next day was the end of the fast and God told Heather not to take her pills anymore.  That same day, as I closed my fast, God told me that Heather was free from her video game if she chose to be.  He wouldn’t force her, but if she wanted to walk away, she was free.  It’s been 352 days now and she hasn’t take a pill and she is free from her addiction to the game.  God be praised!  It’s been amazing to watch her flourish in the last year and I’m so thankful for God’s healing and Heather’s decision to obey.

 

So, wow!  Gold star if you read all that!  My heart is so full from the weekend. God is awesome and my church, family and friends are more than I could ask. 

Filed Under: Fashion, friends and/or family, spiritual stuff, what i did today Tagged With: 2012 trends, daniel fast, fashion, healing

Fashion Friday: Dress Like a Mad Man

December 30, 2011 by Amy 13 Comments

Or, Mad Woman.  Well, not a Mad Woman.  Oh golly, Buy a Dress Like the Ones They Wear on Mad Men.  Hmph!  Have I mentioned my love of the show Mad Men?  At least the first 3 seasons.  I was not fond of Season 4’s storylines one bit.  But the first three are dramatic gold.  Sure it’s dark and twisty and there’s not a redeemable character to be found but the writing!  the acting!  the sets!  the clothes!  If nothing else, Season 1 is worth the look (all 4 seasons are on Netflix).

I bumped into this store on etsy where you can have CUSTOM dresses made that will make you look like Joan Harris.  Well, in my case, without the perfect curves.  But custom made!  A pencil dress that actually fits like a glove!  Just look at these:

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*swoon*

If the pictures and price didn’t sell me, the feedback did:

I never had such a great fit ! Excellent workmanship,beautifull fabric and great communication made this a very positive experience.

The dress is absolutely amazing and rich in color! I got it in purple with gray trim and in swing skirt. The fabric is high quality. It fits me beautifully. I can’t wait to wear it.

…thank you so much for the fast work, the dress arrived today, it’s very beautiful and fits perfect (as always ;-)).

i could not be happier with this purchase. the dress fits amazingly well and the design works really nicely with plus-size measurements.

I love that they’re modest and most are modern enough that people won’t realize your nod to the 50s and 60s.  She’s got many, many more styles, most of which I could not pull off but I would gladly walk around in one every day if I could!

The best part is I contacted the store owner Cynthia and she graciously gave me a 10% discount for YOU: HEART10.  If you like it, how about pinning it?

OK, so go visit the store and tell me which you would (or will) order!  I’m having a hard time deciding!

This post was linked up to Musings of a Housewife for Fashion Friday.

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OPI Fall 2011

September 9, 2011 by Amy 6 Comments

I got a (FREE-thank you, Groupon) manicure and pedicure today so I have nail polish on my mind. And here’s a confession: I do not own one full bottle of OPI nail color.  *gasp*  Maybe because of Pinterest and all its pretty posts, I decided to splurge on a sample-sized variety pack a few weeks ago.  I got 4 colors from their Touring America Fall 2011 collection.

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Here are the four colors I got:

 

French Quarter For Your Thoughts aka “the gray”

The gray was fabulous.  It was a great neutral and I felt fashiony, as Lexi would say.

Honk if You Love OPI “the dark purple”

The purple was lovely.  I love purple.  To be honest though it didn’t feel new.  I suppose it’s because I bought nearly the exact color from Revlon last year.  I know, I know. OPI is 800% better but I just couldn’t get excited about buying a full bottle when I felt like I already had the color.

A-Taupe The Space Needle aka “the green but looks brown”

I love green. I really do. Any of my friends can tell you that’s my go-to color.  But this?  Looks like a baby pooped on your fingers.  Maybe it’s just me and my pink-undertone skin but this was NOT a go.

My Address is Hollywood aka “the pink”

When I started to put on the pink, I was pleasantly surprised to see some shimmer in the polish.  But unfortunately once it dried it basically went away and I honestly ended up with a mousy sort of pink.  I even asked Scott what he thought and it took him a long time to answer, “Yeah, I guess it’s ok.”  Which really translates to “I would never pick that out but it’s not bad enough to hurt your feelings.”

In summary, the bottle that would be worth forking out the $9 or so for a full bottle is the

French Quarter for Your Thoughts or the Honk if You Love OPI if you don’t have a dark purple already. 

Have you tried any of the fall colors?  Favorites out of these?

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What I’m Wearing Wednesday

March 16, 2011 by Amy 7 Comments

As you read this, I’ll be having my “first day”.  Not really first day but in some ways it will feel like it.

I’m commuting to the office.

All my network access will be wiped.

I’ll get a new badge.

I’ll fill out a bunch of paperwork.

I’ll sit at my new assigned desk.

I’ll work 8 hours.

Some of that I’m not too excited about.  However, I AM pretty pumped about the new suit I bought at The Limited last weekend.  Nothing like a little retail therapy.  I figured since I’m a legit banker now, I ought to have a proper suit.  Here’s my “first day” outfit:

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Those pants are so scrumptious, I can not wait to wear them!  I might have to sit in a cube for 8 hours, but I’m going to feel good doing it!

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