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Mountains, BBQ and American Girl

February 20, 2012 by Amy 4 Comments

If you haven’t read yesterday’s post, please do!  It will explain why we made a trip to Northern Georgia this past weekend.  There were a few non-medical related tidbits I thought I’d share.

First off, I had no clue Georgia had mountains.  Although if I’d stop and thought about the fact I’ve been to Stone MOUNTAIN twice I would have put two and two together.  I struggle with the common sense sometimes.  So I guess I was kind of shocked when we got off I-85 in Georgia and started heading deep into the mountains.  By the time the GPS said we were just 15 minutes away and nearly dizzy from the hair pin curves, we found ourselves atop a mountain with the Appalachian Trail somewhere nearby.  We stopped at this little store perched on the top of the mountain. 

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While it looks like it might just be a rest stop, it was packed with high quality hiking gear and local art to buy.  We loved the views.

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Blairsville, GA turned out to be a tiny little town.  They did boast a Zaxby’s, Fatz Cafe, Bi-Lo, Ingles and WalMart but overall, this was a small mountain town still teeming with local businesses.  The hotel I had chosen was family owned.  In fact, the owners live on site.  The decorations were humble but it was super clean, the staff was more than nice and more importantly, cheap.

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The funniest moment was Emma trying to work the TV and saying, “It won’t go to 2-9-9!”  Those with DirecTV and kids will appreciate that joke.

Since we didn’t stop once other than the little mountain store, we were all ready to get out and get some dinner as soon as we got there.  We decided on a local BBQ place.  I was hesitant but Scott said you know if you go to these local places, they do it right.

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This particular restaurant had recently moved to a new location.  Don’t those roosters crack you up with Scott sitting there?  Well, dinner was no laughing matter.  It was DELICIOUS.  Honestly, some of the best BBQ and baked beans I’ve ever had.

After dinner, we made a quick loop around town.  Speaking of, on the trip we ran into all these small towns that had one huge building in the center of town with a round-about   Here is the picture from our hotel parking lot of the center of Blairsville.  Do you have these in your town?  I think there might be some here in South Carolina but ours isn’t like that.

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We realized that this little town was still holding up many locally owned business.  Isn’t this little grocery store Foodland a hoot?  The last thing our town had like that was Piggly Wiggly and they closed probably 20 years ago.

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We realized quickly that most of the town shut down about 6pm.  Scott couldn’t talk the girls into strolling the aisles of Home Depot for the evening so we settled in to our hotel room and watched American’s Funniest Home Videos on Netflix on the laptop.

Saturday morning I was happy to eat at the nearby restaurant Cook’s.  If the town’s BBQ was any indication, breakfast was going to be good.

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And it was.  I tried to stay healthy and only ordered one egg and grits with orange juice.  Emma got toast and you could literally squeeze the butter out of it.  So bad but so good!  We were drooling over the biscuits and gravy at the next table.

After the doctor’s appointment which ended about lunchtime Saturday, we headed south 90 minutes to Alpharetta, GA, the home of one of the American Girl stores.  We nearly took the girls at the beginning of January.  I had the hotel booked and everything but decided against it last minute.  I’m so glad we were able to bundle all this together!

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The girls had an amazing time.  Lexi was beside herself driving up to it.  She had her hands over her mouth and I said, "Lexi, where are we?” She just said, “I can’t even say it,” through her hands.  Cutest thing ever.

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The store was an absolute mad house even given the size. This is only about a third of the store.

 

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What I loved though is that every single outfit they had was on display on a girl.  No more looking at catalogs and the Internet!  We tried to get into the doll salon to have their hair fixed and the bistro but they were booked solid.  The girls ended up with two really cute outfits.

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I had the girls pick out the outfits online before we went so we wouldn’t be there too long.  Emma is so indecisive.  Well, they were done in less than 20 minutes and that included a potty break.  We got done and had plans to explore the mall.  We spotted a carousel and a sign for the Cheesecake Factory but we were all so ready to go home we hit the road right away.  Well, with Starbucks in hand.  So yes, we drove 90 minutes for a 20 minute excursion.  Whatever.  The kids were satisfied and Scott and I in a mall are dangerous anyway.  One day we might get back to Atlanta to visit the Coke Museum and Aquarium.

When we got home at 8pm, we couldn’t believe that we had been home at lunch time just the day before.  It certainly was a whirlwind 30 hours.  As hoped though, very productive and full of great memories.

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How This Weekend Changed Our Lives

February 19, 2012 by Amy 11 Comments

2012-02-17 This weekend in Northern Georgia

Let me be as dramatic as I possibly can and say this weekend was life-changing.  I do mean that in the most practical sense and it could be life-changing temporarily or perhaps, long-term.

The thing about life-changing events is it requires a story.  And unfortunately, this story is not one I’ve even begun to tell here. Which means this post is gonna be a long one.  If you or a loved one suffer from allergies or stomach “issues”, you’re going to want to stay tuned.   Well, I’d love for you to stay-tuned anyway because you know, life-changing and all that.  Click Read More below to continue….

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Word of the Day: Unctuous

February 17, 2012 by Amy 1 Comment

Today’s word came in an interesting way. I was ruminating on what to post today and it all came together when I was browsing through the book The Life You Always Wanted by John Ortberg.  I came across a word with which I wasn’t entirely clear: unctuous.

The section I was reading from was “The Power of Prayer”.  I first underlined the phrase “Prayer changes things.”  And those three words resonated with me when I highlighted and again today as I reread the phrase.  Prayer changes things.  Is that not a humbling thought?   Does that not make you want to hit your knees in the prayer closet?  If I could just read those three words each morning I think it might do us all quite a bit of good.

Further down in the section, Ortberg quotes Walter Wink and herein we find our word of the day:

“The fawning etiquette of unctuous prayer is utterly foreign to the Bible.  Biblical prayer is impertinent, persistent, shameless, indecorous.  It is more like haggling in an oriental bazaar than the polite monologues of the churches.”

I got the general meaning but what is this unctuous prayer that is foreign to the Bible exactly?

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Fatty and oily don’t seem to fit the meaning.  Plastic either.  And full of unction is probably it but what does unction mean exactly?

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3b I think hits what Wink was after: “exaggerated, assumed, superficial.” In other words, prayer isn’t superficial.  It’s not the fancy, ornate, empty prayer from the stage.  Neither is it a handful of flippant phrases thrown at the ceiling from the bed in hopes of checking the task off for the day.  It’s real. And it changes things. 

So let us hit our knees today and let our prayers not be unctuous, but fervent and expectant.

Filed Under: what i did today Tagged With: prayer, unctuous, vocabulary, word of the day

A Little Thursday Random

February 16, 2012 by Amy 3 Comments

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Feels like a list day today.

  • Our adoption home study got turned in this week. Yay! Now we wait for a review and approvals.
  • In full disclosure I feel like I should tell you the alarm clock thing lost it’s magic. The girls have spent the last two mornings sleeping until I get them up. Now, they are getting up and getting dressed but no more helping with lunch and breakfast without us asking. Phooey.
  • And in full, full disclosure, I haven’t been doing the early morning thing that I was back at the end of the year. A big reason I was getting up early was to get done with my eBook and also because I was working at the office a lot more. Now that I’m home and can do things more on my lunch break and don’t have any extra projects going on, I’ve reverted back to late to bed, late to rise. Also some Big Bang Theory DVDs might have something to do with that. I really do miss it though. I wish I could at least get myself up and get fully ready so I could run a few errands after I drop the girls off.
  • I have been eating healthy since this post. Not quite as strict as the Daniel Fast but it reminds me quite a bit of it. I feel so much better, stay full most of the day and have lost a few pounds to boot. It’s odd, when I eat and feel full I have a temptation to feel guilty but I remind myself I’m eating healthy vegetables and fruit and it makes it even easier to make a good choice the next time. HOWEVER. Girl Scout Cookies are getting delivered to me today so we’ll see if I don’t have to do another update on this update soon.
  • In that vein, I’ve been swirling with plans to make a vegetable garden this year.  I can’t keep the small flower in my kitchen alive (or any other plant that has ever come into my house) but for some reason I think it’s a good idea to have an entire garden of plants that we’re required to eat.   We’ll see how that goes.
  • We have big plans this weekend. We have to travel out of town for a doctor visit (nothing to worry over) and we’re taking the girls to the American Girl store while we’re nearby. It’s going to be a whirlwind visit but hopefully some good memories.

And finally, I’ve gotten a few messages lately from readers that have really been touching.  But all I really want to do is just fall at their feet and thank them profusely for even reading in the first place. For whatever reason, God keeps letting me write for you and I’m so thankful because I love coming here and sharing.  So I need to say THANK YOU for reading.

Filed Under: what i did today

Works for Me Wednesday: Siri and the iPhone Reminder App

February 15, 2012 by Amy 10 Comments

I’m a diehard iPhone lover but there is one feature that I think has fallen flat.  Siri.  Just this morning I saw my cousin complaining on Facebook with another example of how Siri did not interpret her request even close to correctly.  My problem is not so much that it doesn’t understand me but in the limited functions it can do.  For example, I can’t tell it to do anything on Twitter or Facebook, or any other app for that matter.  I could understand except Twitter is a built-in app now.  It should at least be able to open and refresh my timeline.

I’ve found it’s pretty limited to calling and texting people, weather, music, directions and searching.  Some of it is helpful but when it can’t understand what you’re saying, particularly when you’re requesting street addresses or names, it’s dreadfully useless.

However.

The one thing I constantly use Siri for is reminders.  I didn’t even know I had a Reminders app until a few months ago.  I was previously using my calendar to schedule things.  These days, if it’s not on my calendar, it’s NOT happening.  Funny enough, last week I saw Lexi had an upcoming dentist appointment.  I started warning her to get prepared 3 days in advance.  Finally, she said, “But they said they wouldn’t see me until May last time!”  Well, just in case, I made the phone call and sure enough the appointment in my calendar was still in there after we had already taken a canceled appointment a few weeks back and I had forgotten to remove the original appointment.  

The calendar is great and all but I schedule silly things like going to the pharmacy or calling a friend or leaving Amazon feedback I promised.  It’s not really an appointment but I need to do it at some point.  Reminders are great for this.  You still can schedule them, on repeat if needed, and it still reminds you at a certain time but it’s not clouding your calendar with the rest of the REAL appointments.

However, I find the reminder interface a little confusing.  It’s one of the few iPhone apps I say that about. 

Enter Siri.

I find it MUCH easier to say, “Remind me take out the trash every Tuesday at 7am.”  Bam!  It’s done, repeating reminder and all.

Here’s a transcript for my lunch today:

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So it’s not grammatically correct but at least the words are correct.  It will show a pop-up notification on my screen at 12.  When I’m done, I can check it off in my Reminders app.  And if you know me, you know how much I love to do that!

Works for me!

This post is linked up to WeAreThatFamily.com

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Top Ten Ways God Loves You

February 14, 2012 by Amy 5 Comments

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I put this list together for my eBook Entangled.  I return to it in my mind when I need a reminder of His love.  Perhaps you need a reminder this Valentine’s Day.  Here is the printable list of all of them.  And here are the Top 10:

 

1. He knows you intimately
But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Matthew 10:30
The LORD knows the thoughts of man. Psalm 94:11
Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations. Jeremiah 1:5

2. He thinks you’re beautiful
For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving. 1 Timothy 4:4
He has made everything beautiful in its time. Ecclesiastes 3:11
God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. Genesis 1:31

3. He delights in you
The LORD detests lying lips, but he delights in men who are truthful. Proverbs 12:22
The Lord takes pleasure in those who fear him, in those who hope in his steadfast love. Psalm 147:11

4. He will fight for you
The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still. Exodus 14:14

5. He forgives you
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9
In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace.Ephesians 1:7

6. He wants the best for you
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

7. He sees and appreciates you
The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness. Zephaniah 3:17
How amazing are your thoughts concerning me. Psalm 139:17

8. He protects you
Call upon Me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you will honor Me. Psalm 50:15
For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways. Psalm 91:11

9. He wants to give you the desires of your heart
Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4
He fulfills the desires of those who fear him; he hears their cry and saves them. Psalm 145:19

10. He is jealous for you
I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him. 2 Corinthians 11:2

 

Happy Valentine’s Day.  I sincerely love you guys!

This post is linked to ohAmanda’s Top Ten Tuesday

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Marriage, Fashion and Healing

February 13, 2012 by Amy 4 Comments

I couldn’t call this simply a weekend recap.  So much stuff this weekend!  If my last few weekends have been quiet and around-the-house type weekends, the last 3 days have been quite the opposite.  Each day we had something pretty big and I can’t wait to tell you!  Hang on, because this is a long one!!

 

MarriedLife Live

 

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Friday night Scott and I attended the MarriedLife Live event at our church.  It was less conference and more a night out for married couples in the church.  We had a live band, dessert and coffee and we did hear from our family pastor.  He talked about seasons of marriage and how some bad seasons tear couples apart and others are drawn together.  To avoid the former, we should store up in the good times, just as Joseph did in Egypt, knowing a famine was coming.  I felt like this was especially appropriate for us as the last year or two has generally been a good season for our marriage but I know the adoption will test us.  Right now is the time to build up our marriage, not only when we’re trying to salvage it.

We also did an exercise where each of us had to fill out what we wanted each other to do and say at four times during the day: morning, saying goodbye for the day, saying hello and going to bed.  I have to say it was eye-opening.  We rarely do anything like that and really appreciated knowing what Scott expects and desires.

 

Be Red Hot

 

Saturday morning I attended the Be Red Hot Women’s conference at Dani’s church to support her as she led a break-out session.  I was completely blessed by the main speaker Branda Polk.  The conference was a diving board off the verse about not being lukewarm but either hot or cold.  We want to be red hot in our faith.

One thing she hit on that I hope she doesn’t mind that I share is the thought that the Bible says we ought to do all things unto God. But how do my menial tasks mean anything to Him?  Isn’t it only big people doing big things for God that He treasures?  She likened it to our children picking dandelions and giving it to us as a gift of love.  Practically, they are giving us a weed but because it is done unto us in love, it is a treasure.  Isn’t that an awesome thought?

Dani rocked her fashion session.  She started out speaking to the heart of the matter.  Does God even want us to spend time on how we look?  Yes!  He cares about all things and the way we present ourselves on the outside can say something about what He’s done on the inside.  It also says something about how we feel about the people around us.  I know Scott always notices when I dress up more for work than I do him.  That’s sending a message, true or not, that I care more for what they think than what he thinks.  However, if our vanity and pride are keeping us occupied and unable to give like He requires, it’s a problem!

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She also went over the top trends for the year, how she builds her closet and took time to dress up a few folks with accessories she had bought.   I even got to help on stage for a hot second to share her Sneaky Jacket Trick.  She did a fabulous job and I think everyone was ready for a full day conference just with Dani.  I know if there is anything I know about styling, it is all from her instruction over the past 14 years we’ve been friends.  Those blue shoes I have on in that pic are results of an email from Dani…"buy these and this is what you wear with it” (that yellow shirt is my one of my Old Navy shirts)!

 

Testimony

 

Fast forward through Saturday family time, Sunday church, dinner and nap and we headed to my parents’ and sister’s church to hear my sister give her testimony.  One day I want to take the time and give you all the intricate details about what happened but the gist of it is this. 

Heather has had a sleeping disorder her whole life.  Without medication, she always wanted to sleep.  Like, she would go to bed at 7 on a Friday night, get up at 1 the next afternoon and then could take a nap at 4.  She finally was diagnosed at 20 and got some pills ($600 a month!) that would keep her awake all day.  However, my mom would have to call her every single morning over and over and OVER to get her to answer the phone long enough for her to take the pills so she would wake up an hour or two later.  It was exhausting and frustrating. 

During the past few years, she had also started playing World of Warcraft video game and found herself addicted.  Addicted to a video game?  Yep!  I remember having the girls’ family birthday here at the house the year before last and she came in with her laptop, hooked it up and was playing through the birthday party.  She was playing every chance she got. 

Well, her church did a 40 day fast last January and God called her to fast her video game.  She did and as she described it, went through physical withdrawals.  Towards the end of the 40 days, God was calling me to do the Daniel Fast (I mention Heather’s healing vaguely in the post).  I had two different dreams about her just days before I started and I knew that I was to fast and pray for Heather.  Heather had given me her laptop so she wouldn’t play it and I prayed over her laptop during the fast.  Yes, I laid hands on a laptop!  I can’t tell you the power I felt when I touched it.  My heart broke and my spirit was completely burdened. 

Three days before the end of her 40 days and Heather woke up on her own at 5:30am.  The next day she woke up again.  The next day was the end of the fast and God told Heather not to take her pills anymore.  That same day, as I closed my fast, God told me that Heather was free from her video game if she chose to be.  He wouldn’t force her, but if she wanted to walk away, she was free.  It’s been 352 days now and she hasn’t take a pill and she is free from her addiction to the game.  God be praised!  It’s been amazing to watch her flourish in the last year and I’m so thankful for God’s healing and Heather’s decision to obey.

 

So, wow!  Gold star if you read all that!  My heart is so full from the weekend. God is awesome and my church, family and friends are more than I could ask. 

Filed Under: Fashion, friends and/or family, spiritual stuff, what i did today Tagged With: 2012 trends, daniel fast, fashion, healing

A Superfluous Post

February 10, 2012 by Amy 2 Comments

I helped in Emma’s second grade class with word study this week by giving two groups some practice tests.  I was shocked at the word list of the second group which was clearly one notch higher than the list Emma usually brings home.  I tried coming up with sentences for each word as I do for Emma and distinctly remember my sixth grade teacher Mrs. Smith doing.  I remember having to hear, see and write all of our spelling words. She said it helped all of us since we all had different learning styles.  In any case, I was trying to come up with sentences and was doing pretty good with words like fluctuate, conservative and extravert.  While I had a general idea of the meaning, I couldn’t come up with a sentence off-hand for “superfluous”.  Superfluous.  Seriously? For a third grader?  I was telling Scott about this and he said, “I didn’t even know that was a word.”  Exactly my point.

So how about a quick word of the day?

Superfluous means

Superfluous - Definition and More from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary

A sentence might be

I have a lot of superfluous stuff on my desk this afternoon.

or

I am now regretting the superfluous Skinny Vanilla Latte I had this afternoon which is sure to cause some superfluous fat cells.

or

This word of the day post is superfluous.

or

Superfluous is a superfluous word.

 

Get it?  Good.  Now you are at least as smart as a third grader.

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