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Goodnight, One Tree Hill

April 4, 2012 by Amy 9 Comments

I couldn’t seem to get through the day without talking a bit about One Tree Hill.  The last episode is on tonight and while I’ve only watched just a few from this season, I can’t help but acknowledge the mark it made on my life.  Can a TV show make a mark on one’s life?  Should it?  I don’t know, but it did.

My sister finally got me to watch it just when Season 4 was on.  I was hooked.  That sad, introspective boy with the crush on the girl got to me and I was staying up night after night trying to catch up.  I remember one particular Friday night I stayed up until 4am watching episodes. 

About this time in 2007, monetizing blogs were really taking off and I watched as one of my friends made several hundred dollars from a fan site.  I was already blogging about One Tree Hill on my personal blog and as much as I loved the show, I just knew I could do that too.  Well, I did.  Off went onetreehillblog.com in just a few months.  I remember the first month I was shocked when I made .30 in a day.  Nine months later, the site had blown up and if the money had continued at its peak, I could have completely replaced my income.  But it wasn’t all about the money.  I truly loved the show.

My parents got into the show and before we knew it, we had to visit the nearby set in Wilmington, NC.  We went for my 30th birthday in July of 2008. We got to see Quinton’s funeral filmed, visit the set and really get to know this Tree Hill.

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Oh, and how about running into “Nathan”, “Brooke” and “Millie” on our way to get ice cream?

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In March of 2009, Heather and I went for a unofficial fan reunion where we saw a ton of filming and I finally got my picture with CMM and creator Mark Schwahn as well as many other cast members including Nick Lachey who was guest starring at that time.

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(Yes, I know.  I look like I’m about to eat him.  I was trying to talk.)

 

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I went back to extra in the show in 2009.  Although minute, I’m happy to say I was a part of the show.

 

I ended up selling the blog at the end of 2010 and my interest the show waned as characters left and the show really changed.  I’ve also (tried to) tempered my obsession over TV in the last year or so but I can’t deny how much I loved it. 

I have friends that I would have never met…Carolyn, Denise, Kaitlin, Amanda and Jason just to name a few.  The show monetarily provided for my family and many others.  And of course, the characters gave me something to cheer for, laugh with, hope for, cry over, learn from and simply enjoy. 

Lucas, Peyton, Brooke, Nathan, Haley, Mouth and Skills especially will always be special characters.  Thanks to all the cast and crew that brought them to life and all the people that supported OTHBlog and shared my crazy love of a TV show.

Goodnight, One Tree Hill.

Filed Under: tv Tagged With: bethany joy lenz, chad michael murray, hilarie burton, mark schwahn, one tree hill, stephen colletti

Saying Yes to the Rain

April 3, 2012 by Amy 6 Comments

Drops started and children played.

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Mother instinct starts.  Come in!  Stay safe!  Stay clean!  Something stopped me.  Perhaps a divine reminder kids need to be kids.  Instead of a yell, I went for a camera.

What is it about the rain that makes you want to dance? 

 

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To turn your face clear up to the sky and take what it gives?

 

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From where does the urge come to find the puddles?  Surely it wasn’t mother-taught.

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The laughter, the dancing, the twirling. 

 

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Sometimes I think we hold too tight and forget there’s joy in letting go.  Sure there are times when a no is entirely necessary but others, we are so quick to jump to the right thing we forget it may not be the right thing at all.

A challenge for mothers today: what can you say yes to today?

Filed Under: children

Mad Hatter Sebastian Stan

April 2, 2012 by Amy 5 Comments

Have you been keeping up with the show Once Upon a Time? To be honest, it’s not the best show ever but it has a few things going for it.   I’m captivated by the Snow/Charming storyline.  I’m always interested to see how they’re going to finally tie the two worlds together.  And finally, I’m curious every week to see a new fairytale tied in. 

Well, I just caught up with the The Hat Trick episode and I have to say, I was completely enthralled with the Mad Hatter.  Well, not the Mad Hatter but the guy who plays the Mad Hatter—Sebastian Stan.  Rarely do I pay attention to guest appearances but I seriously could not quit obsessing how good this guy was.  In true Amy fashion, I wanted to know more!  And of course, I’m going to share it with you.  First, off, here’s a little screencap I took of him as The Mad Hatter.

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For once on this show, I actually believed the guy and his insistence on knowing the two worlds.  His love of his daughter was moving.  And yes, the guy with his scruffy face is pretty to look at.  If Johnny Depp and Robert Pattinson had a kid, I think this would be him. 

So it turns out I’ve seen this guy on screen and didn’t even know it.  He played Carter Baizen in Season 2 of Gossip Girl.  I watched that whole season but don’t remember him as a stand-out.  I rewatched this scene and could recall neither him nor the entire scene. 

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He also was in Captain America and Black Swan although I’ve seen neither of these and from what I can tell, I wouldn’t have picked him out of the crowd.

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Seems like he’s pretty popular in real life as he dated his Gossip Girl costar Leighton Meister for two years and up until December dated Dianna Agron, better known as “Quinn” in Glee. 

In any case, I just have to put it out into the Internets that I like this guy and I hope we see more of him.  At least checking out the The Hat Trick will be worth your time.  I think I’m going to have to give it a second spin myself. 

Sebastian, if you have Google Alerts on yourself and happen to read this, please let me thank you for a terrific performance in the OUAT episode.  Without giving away the ending of the episode, I do hope we see you again– GraceFully.

Anyone still watching the OUAT?  Anyone a Sebastian Stan fan?

Filed Under: tv Tagged With: sebastian stan

Weekend Recap

April 2, 2012 by Amy Leave a Comment

Before I write any sort of recap, I’d like this post to live up to its blog’s name Permission to Peruse. We have a few family members going through some serious stuff.  In fact, my busy thoughts and troubled heart are why I didn’t post at all on Friday.  Please know as I post in the next days, perhaps weeks, that my heart is heavy.  I don’t have the permission to let you peruse the details (sorry, had to) but if you could say some prayers, I know God knows what’s going on.

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Scott worked the weekend so those are always the times the girls and I get out and have some sweet girl times together.  Friday night we got out to the park.  Emma was hilarious as two younger boys tried to join in their fun in the sand box and Emma kept looking at me and mouthing, “Save. me.”  It made me giggle even though we all know she’s been the busy little girl no one could keep up with before.

Saturday morning we got out to the library.  I love, love that both of the girls are becoming bookworms and nothing makes me happier than all of us carrying an armful of books out the door.  Their current favorite is Diary of a Wimpy Kid.  I was shocked when Emma ended up reading one of them in less than 24 hours.  We hit up the grocery store and then did a little spring clothes shopping.  We didn’t make any plans for Spring Break and the only request Lexi had was to go to Justice.  I don’t know if that’s good or bad but I do know one outfit is a lot cheaper than a Spring Break week at Disney.  We had someone come out and talk to us about landscaping the front yard since we never planted anything after the addition last year.  We had another friend stop by and then the girls and I just spent the night at home, capping off the day with an episode of Little House of the Prairie.  I’m not sure the girls quite appreciate the show yet.  In the middle, Emma exclaimed, “This is so pointless!”  The episode was about a couple in the town on the brink of divorce so I’m just not sure she connected.  Ah well, at least I’m trying.

Sunday we had church and lunch and then the girls stayed over with their cousin.  I did some heavier grocery shopping, laundry and the like.  My niece stayed over last night and we ended up at my parents’ house for the evening where they played, visited a neighbor’s horse and watched a movie in their theater room. 

Today is the first day of Spring Break.  We have family coming in to town on Wednesday so I decided to take Thursday and Friday off.  It’s a short work-week and I couldn’t be more excited. 

 

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Filed Under: what i did today

And We’re Still Gluten-free

March 29, 2012 by Amy 5 Comments

I’m in the car somewhere in Northern Georgia. We had our follow-up doctor’s visit today. If you have no idea what I’m talking about, let me refer you to this post. So here’s the results:

Emma’s liver is now testing clear and she does not need to take her liver pills anymore.
Emma’s emotional test was clear so she does not need to take her drops.
As for her milk, he still wants her to stay away from milk on its own. Cheese, baked goods with milk, etc are fine but if she’s going to have a glass of milk or a bowl of cereal, she should either have a dairy-free alternative OR he said he felt comfortable with her having drinking raw milk which I thought was interesting.
As for her gluten, it is better but she should continue gluten-free. I asked about a NAET treatment and he said it was not an allergy, but a sensitivity which is totally different. I had suspected as much after doing more reading these past weeks. He thought she may outgrow it though and could be tested in a few years.

Scott’s sinus is clear of the fungus but we haven’t seen much improvement. It turns out his other sinus cavity has a different fungus so he gave him a different anti-fungal medicine for that. He had indicated last time that might be the case so no surprise there.
As for his stomach, he doesn’t need the Amalyse anymore to help digest carbs but kept him on the Digestin. He ran out of that last week and his acid reflux returned immediately. He said his body is just not producing enough acid to break down his food.
As for his seratonin, he is also continuing that as we believe it could replace his OCD meds.

Overall, he said he could see improvement in both of them. I’m a little bummed we are sticking with gluten-free but it’s great to have the milk back. It opens up so many more Italian dishes and snacks she can have. We have found so many good gluten-free products. Oh, he also gave us a pill to take in case we did have gluten and it would help break it down. He didn’t see any need to see us again. He’d just check on Scott by phone.

Even though gluten-free is hard I’m so glad Emma is not suffering. While its no fun to miss out on some foods I think it’s better than hurting every time she eats and have no idea why. And even though Scott could be on that Digestin for years I feel better knowing it’s a homeopathic solution.

So that’s that. What questions do you have about gluten-free living? I’m just a baby gluten-freer but would be happy to help if I could.

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American Idol Top 9

March 28, 2012 by Amy Leave a Comment

AMERICAN IDOL: The Final 9: Clockwise From Top L; Colton Dixon, Elise Testone, Phillip Phillips, Heejun Han, DeAndre Brackensick, Josh Ledet, Hollie Cavanaugh, Skylar Laine and Jessica Sanchez. CR: Michael Becker / FOX.

Colton – I really wanted to like that as it was his favorite worship song but I found it sleepy in the beginning and a bit sloppy. I couldn’t understand a word. I did see that he believed it I just couldn’t enjoy it. Gosh, I hate that. The judges don’t agree. Am I missing it??

Skylar – Besides being on the manic side a little, I enjoyed this. Felt like it was right up her alley and she sounded like a pro.

Colton, Elise, Phillip – Loved Colton with the first song. Not sure they nailed the group. The second with Elise was better. The third with Phillip was my favorite for the group.

Heejun – Ok that’s the Heejun we all fell in love with. Beautiful. I want to play that on repeat. Yes!!!

Hollie – That was no Carrie but it wasn’t horrible. “I’m not going to mess with Jesus or Carrie.” lol Smart, Steven.

Deandre – Wow, that really should have gone well but it only hurt my ears. Clearly the judges disagree again.

Jessica – I don’t know if that was my favorite song ever but gorgeous vocals. She’s amazing.

Deandre, Joshua and Heejun – Heejun was amazing on that first part. The rest was eh.

Phillip – I have no idea what that song was but I’m still on the Phillip train.

Joshua – Wow, Joshua. That is some sanging. So amazing.

Hollie, Skylar, Jessica – Yikes. Madonna on those girls is pretty sketchy.

Elise – Well, clearly, rock is where Elise is supposed to be.

Favorites – How do you pick?? I think for me, tonight goes to Phillip, Joshua and Heejun

In trouble – Deandre

Filed Under: tv Tagged With: american idol, colton dixon, jessica sanchez, phillip phillips

All This Time

March 27, 2012 by Amy 6 Comments

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A few years ago when I was writing my novel—I say that in all humbleness as it is locked away for no one to see—I was trying to fix my main character.   I had thought to make it a main stream novel but I remember telling someone, “I can’t fix her without God.” 

I’ve been counseling a friend the past few days and I feel the same with her.  The only hope I have to give is from God.  Only through Him do I know how to make the wrong ok, have reason to forgive and look forward to the future.

I was just listening to Britt Nicole’s new song All This Time just now and I love the chorus:

All this time
From the first tear cry
To today’s sunrise
And every single moment between
You were there
You were always there
It was You and I
You’ve been walking with me all this time

And it’s true.  He’s been with me since I was a little girl.  If there is anything good or praiseworthy in my life it’s not because I’m smart or have the right answers.  In fact, it’s quite the opposite. It’s only because I did what was right even when I didn’t want to because He said it.  It’s because I learned that His small voice was right every time I tried to tell him he was wrong.  It’s because I learned His ways are the right ways.  It pays off every. single. time.  Patience, kindness, generosity always are the right responses and the amazing thing is I didn’t muster up any of those qualities. He gives them through His spirit. When you seek his voice and obey, those are the qualities on display. 

I don’t know where I’m going with this except just to take time and say God is good all the time.  If you need hope, it’s through him.  Only through him.  I’m so thankful for all his blessings all this time.  He’s so good.  So faithful.  He loves me so well and I just want that so badly for everyone else. The Christian life doesn’t mean it’s easy but it does mean it’s full of hope.  Even in the darkest hour there is hope in his purpose and goodness. 

If you’re struggling, please hold on to him.  I don’t have the answers.  I don’t.  But I can point you to the one who does.  God can fix it.  Whatever your “it” is, he either has a way out or he’ll hold you straight through.  Find that still, small voice and hang on to it with all you’ve got.

Filed Under: spiritual stuff

Photography Lessons with Shoot Fly Shoot

March 27, 2012 by Amy 2 Comments

I have had our Canon Rebel XT DSLR for years and all I’ve ever used is either Automatic or No Flash mode.  Every once in a while I’d catch a blog post of someone trying to teach ISO and aperture and all those manual mode words and I’d get courageous and turn the dial over to Manual to see what would happen.  Nothing but fail.  I just couldn’t get it together.

I’ve been a fan of Layla and Kevin at the Lettered Cottage for a while and when Kevin announced he had started a new online photography business with his friend Josh called Shoot FLY Shoot, well, I knew it was for me. 

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And boy, was I right.  I SO enjoyed taking the classes.  Photography 101 is simply a set of 12 videos on a web page to watch at your leisure.  Kevin and Josh are super awesome.  They don’t assume you know anything and don’t make you feel stupid if you don’t.  They explain it in a straightforward manner but it’s not boring either.  In fact, the two of them are pretty charming if you don’t mind me saying.  The videos are sharp and professional and really just pretty, for a lack of a better word.  As a visual learner, I just couldn’t have asked for anything more.

The best thing is, I GOT IT.  I really, really finally GET ISO, aperture and shutter speed.  I get what that meter is for on the back that keeps moving back and forth.  Before, I knew that a high ISO would make the room brighter and low would make it darker but I didn’t realize I was sacrificing detail and really that’s not the thing I need to be messing with much.  I knew about bokeh but I was trying to change my aperture all on its own.  I’d heard about shutter speed but didn’t have a clue about how to change it and when.  It’s like I had some of the pieces but they finally put it together for me. I’m not an excellent photographer yet but I know the basics of what I need to do on Manual mode.  From here, it’s practice, practice, practice.

I have no other incentive to say this other than I mean it and you should know: help is out there and it’s 100% worth the cost.  If you’re scared of the “M”, go.  Go, go, go!

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